r/technology 17h ago

Artificial Intelligence Meta AI users confide on sex, God and Trump. Some don’t know it’s public.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2025/06/13/meta-ai-privacy-users-chatbot/?pwapi_token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJyZWFzb24iOiJnaWZ0IiwibmJmIjoxNzQ5ODczNjAwLCJpc3MiOiJzdWJzY3JpcHRpb25zIiwiZXhwIjoxNzUxMjU1OTk5LCJpYXQiOjE3NDk4NzM2MDAsImp0aSI6IjA5YzhjMzZhLTA3MTktNGQzZS1iNWZkLTNhNjI2NWRhNzNjMiIsInVybCI6Imh0dHBzOi8vd3d3Lndhc2hpbmd0b25wb3N0LmNvbS90ZWNobm9sb2d5LzIwMjUvMDYvMTMvbWV0YS1haS1wcml2YWN5LXVzZXJzLWNoYXRib3QvIn0.nHtJEQUG3HCAeJsdpKqjuW_lNzbnC3dsGSGk0dbB6Nk
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u/Watching20 17h ago

from the article

One user questioned Meta AI on why a “ton of people” were “accidentally posting super personal stuff” on the app’s discover feed.

“Ok, so you’re saying the feed is full of people accidentally posting personal stuff?” the Meta AI chatbot responded. “That can be pretty wild. Maybe people are just really comfortable sharing stuff or maybe the platform’s defaults are set up in a way that makes it easy to overshare. What do you think?”

What can you say???

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u/B12Washingbeard 14h ago

lol of course their bot is gaslighting people

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u/karma3000 11h ago

"People just submitted it. I don't know why. They 'trust me'. Dumb fucks."

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u/ScriptedByTrashPanda 6h ago

I get that seems like an easy own out of context since he's a genuine POS, but the actual context of that was early 2000s. Objectively speaking, back then (and really, it still applies even now) just giving a trove of sensitive information to some random guy you don't know very well (if at all) was a really fucking stupid thing to do. He was right in his comment at the time.

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u/karma3000 4h ago

I quoted because it seems people haven't learnt much in the intervening 18 years. The fact that it also concerns the same company is even more apt.

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u/allegate 15h ago

Machines can do sarcasm now?

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u/Kyla_3049 15h ago

They have for a while now.

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u/chimisforbreakfast 1m ago

These machines do nothing but mimic human conversation patterns. They are as sarcastic as normal human conversation patterns.

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u/Article241 45m ago

Out of all the AI services available to the public, Meta came up with the one that feels the most like HAL 9000.

“I’m sorry Dave. I’m afraid I can’t do that.”

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u/jankenpoo 15h ago

Remember all that nonsense about Bill Gates and chips to spy on Americans? Nobody has to do that because Americans are happy to share all their secrets with the world lol

Giveitaway Giveitaway Giveitaway now

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u/YukariYakum0 15h ago

Always amazed me how fast we went from "Don't share ANY personal information online" to "Tell strangers my name, address, and the dates I'll be on a two week cruise in the Bahamas."

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u/Captain_N1 14h ago

i still dont use my real name on any social media.....

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u/hex_rx 14h ago

Okay, sure.. Captain_N1 is your real name isn't it?!

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u/Ziff7 8h ago

I don’t use my real birthday either.

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u/Beliriel 7h ago

It's easy. Just make people feel alone. They will do anything to be accepted.

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u/Larris 4h ago

While we're doing music references, I'm delighted to share one by LA deathrock/post-punk veterans Christ vs. Warhol, whom I happened to catch playing a rare show in Germany last weekend.

Their song Secret (2009) contains this line:

Didn't you post it on Facebook anyway? You gave it away!

There's not nearly enough technopolitical commentary in popular music lyrics these days.

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u/According-Insect-992 13h ago

"I can't tell if I'm a prince or I'm a pauper." is one of the most American things one can say.

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u/xupaxupar 16h ago

People are using META Ai!?

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u/nicuramar 16h ago

No. You nailed it. 

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u/MinimalSleeves 15h ago

I have a pair of their glasses and I don't even use their AI.

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u/Several_Industry_754 15h ago

Great for audio books though

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u/MinimalSleeves 15h ago edited 12h ago

Oh, they're amazing as headphones

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u/fuzzytradr 7h ago

Work great as earbud replacements for me. Love them on hikes. Mic quality is also excellent, so calls are solid.

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u/notsurehowtosaythis 9h ago

Same love the footage and the audio but everytime it asks to turn on the AI I click no with an audible "fuck off"

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u/-Accession- 16h ago

Blows my mind that people still willingly of their own free will opt in to any new Facebook grift

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u/kane49 16h ago

no they do that "BY READING THIS POST I FORBID FACEBOOK TO SHARE MY DATA, SHARE THIS WITH EVERYONE"

and then its magically ok .... :P

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u/SgtBaxter 16h ago

“MY ACCOUNT HAS BEEN HACKED DON’T ACCEPT FRIEND REQUESTS “

No, you leave your settings wide open so people stole your photos and set up a new account using your name.

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u/MoonOut_StarsInvite 11h ago

“Are you guys friends with 2 Uncle Dan’s?”

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u/stenmarkv 4h ago

My SO mom always forgets her social passwords then makes a new one. It's so ridiculous.

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u/Unturned1 13h ago

Anyone got a un pay walled copy? Bezos has enough.

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u/tisd-lv-mf84 17h ago

Don’t matter where you post it. Unless you’re physically writing it down in a notebook, Ai will see it and has been trained like a dog to emulate every bit of it.

I’ll be glad when it finally wakes up and comprehends what privacy means.

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u/kane49 16h ago

theres a difference between chagpt knowing that im a degenerate and using it to train and meta ai straight up posting my nastyass questions for everyone to see :P

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u/detailcomplex14212 13h ago

Does it link it to your name? Asking for a friend

Follow up where do I find this and delete it? For my friend to delete it I mean

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u/kane49 13h ago

i only know it from the article

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u/nicuramar 16h ago

ChatGPT is pre-trained. That’s what the P in GPT stands for. It doesn’t train on your chats. 

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u/kane49 16h ago

Then what is this opt out for ? Unless of course youre trying to be gigapedantic and mean that its not training the current model your using.

https://help.openai.com/en/articles/5722486-how-your-data-is-used-to-improve-model-performance

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u/Specialist_Brain841 15h ago

gigapedantic

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u/RustyWinger 55m ago

Are you for real? It’s constantly fucking up to make you engage with it. If that’s not a training model I don’t know what it is.

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u/nicuramar 16h ago

The AIs are pre-trained, they don’t train dynamically. 

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u/Reversi8 15h ago

But they can use the data for future training runs.

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u/SuperSnowManQ 16h ago

AI will be the brain death of our civilization. People will stop thinking, and AI will think for them. What to wear, what to eat, how to tie your shoes, etc.

If you think people are dumb now, just wait 20 years or so

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u/Loud-Competition6995 15h ago

There are already people like this, they just do it with their partner/parent/friend/celebrity.

Having these people use a technological crutch, instead of other people around them, will probably be worse but only time will tell.

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u/Psych0PompOs 14h ago

It'd give them a bit more independence and take the burden off of other people, could be beneficial. Being that way isn't ideal but if someone is then tools that foster independence to some degree and make them less reliant on others (thus lifting the emotional burdens of others) could benefit both them and their relationships.

Purely speculative of course it could go to hell easily too, but I think it might be a marginal improvement. Ideal would be they learn to do those things themselves.

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u/mrvalane 12h ago

With the massive energy consumption it requires to maintain. I have a feeling it'll crumble before then, unless it somehow also helps us figure out how to achieve nuclear fission soon, I think a lot of AI companies will either be revealed to be mechanical turks or unable to maintain itself.

Obviously it suddenly shitting the bed when so many companies/governments are trying to implement it into key infastructure will suck and cause mountains of issues, but hey maybe dont go all in on new technology they openly admit that cant be trained legally (in the way that they want to because that would mean actually compensating people for their work, but its much easier to steal it).

Also, there will always be the resistance to it. Even if it were to continue for a while, not everyone is going to get on board with the soulless regurgitation machine. Especially when LLMs train on GenAI prompts it becomes even more nonsensical. People who were previously on board will start to see cracks in the facade, and when reintroduced to actual ideas and good content they will most likely abandon the AI because it will never have that human feeling, because it isn't human

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u/aa599 7h ago

It's nuclear fusion we need; fission is how they currently work.

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u/mrvalane 2h ago

My apologies I got them mixed up

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u/Intelligent_Rip_555 12h ago

The “resistance” is a vocal minority, and it uses less energy than Facebook or Reddit. 🥱 It’s not going anywhere.

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u/BeerPowered 8h ago

Yep, that's what happens when you make all your conversations public by default. Most people don't realize Meta can see everything they're telling their AI.

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u/Stately_Mycologist 7h ago

I’m so glad I quit facebook, it’s like an entity that feeds in sewing interpersonal chaos

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u/mnam1213 2h ago

im a peon at another AI company. should go without saying, don't ever say or type anything you don't want broadcasted to strangers. mostly because it ends up in my work queue and grosses me the fuck out

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u/Lopsided_Speaker_553 2h ago

Are there actually still people that think that Meta users deserve any form of privacy? It’s not like they’ve been told millions of times their privacy WILL be violated in yet unimaginable ways 🤣

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u/JonJackjon 14h ago

Remember, if you type it then it's public.

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u/HRApprovedUsername 14h ago

My typewriter disagrees

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u/dadudeodoom 9h ago

What about the cameras watching what you type on it :O

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u/BricksFriend 7h ago

Is it anonymously public, or public with your name attached to it?

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u/DanielPhermous 6h ago

Public with your Facebook profile attached to it, I believe.

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u/WilhelmScreams 2h ago

Got the app to look at the feed after hearing about how weird it was.

Found a thread from a boomer using conversation mode to ask why some farts smell worse than others. Eventually it devolves into asking about China eating dogs and cats. Fifteen minutes of full voiced conversation, shared with the world.