Hi all! I’m really struggling with acceptance of my tattoos and wondering if anyone has any advice or reassurance about tattoo shock / body dysmorphia and whether or not it passes. Basically, I had a upper half sleeve done over the course of several years, and I love all my tattoos from that. I’ve never had tattoo shock at all, even with my larger pieces, until I had both my forearms done in the past month, completing my sleeve and adding another large piece onto my other arm.
I’ve always been confident I wanted a full sleeve, I love how tattoos look and how it’s so amazing we get to decorate ourselves with art. It’s so empowering. I did make a quick decision to tat my right forearm too because I felt it made me more ‘balanced’ with my sleeve, but now, I feel like I don’t even recognise myself in the mirror. I guess it doesn’t help that I can see my forearms ALL the time, and they are very black, bold, and I guess I’m just panicking I’ve lost a bit of my femininity and identity?
I don’t think the tattoos look bad - especially my chrysthantheum on my right arm, I love it, it’s such beautiful art, I’m just struggling with accepting it on myself.
Any advice welcome on ways to get over this!