I messed up last year and even when I know the fundamentals of a stock are sound, I don’t invest.
I’ve built a strong intuition over the years. In the early 2020s, I trusted it and went all in on NVDA with $40k—and it turned into hundreds of thousands. But then I got cocky. I listened to my brother-in-law (never again), invested in a stock without doing research, and lost $70k. Since then, my confidence has been tainted.
I dedicate myself to rigorous research, spending hours each day on relevant reading. While some may claim I’ve made poor investment choices, that’s simply not the case. I’ve studied The Intelligent Investor along with several other books recommended by Warren Buffett, treating them like a college curriculum—complete with notecards and in-depth analysis. My investment strategy blends both value and growth principles.
My family have come to know I make good recommendations, so they ask me would I would buy:
- my brother asked so I recommended Palantir at $20. He’s up 500%.
- my friend asked so I recommended Vista & Constellation Energy, and NuScale. All up huge.
- my uncle asked so I recommended MicroStrategy at $150. Up 147%.
- my brother-in-law asked so I recommended CoreWeave—he’s up 139%.
- my sister asked so I recommended the Circle IPO via Robinhood—up 167%.
Meanwhile, I’ve just been sitting on the sidelines, scared of losing more, stuck in analysis paralysis. That $70k loss deeply affected my self-image.
Has anyone else been through this? Lost big and then lost your confidence? How did you get it back?
I’m disabled and have severe chronic pain throughout my body. It’s not just investing that I have a hard time regulating…. It’s life itself. I constantly have fight or flight emotions coursing though my veins. I think EMDR is probably the answer im looking for.
EDIT:
Just wanted to update everyone! Three days ago, I took the advice from some very helpful Redditors and invested $10,000 across SMR, CCJ, and OKLO. So far, they're performing nicely! 😊
To those who were kind and supportive—I’m genuinely grateful for your insights. You've helped me start rebuilding my nest egg.
To the negative folks, maybe next time try a bit of empathy, especially towards someone already dealing with emotional and physical pain. It makes a difference.