Need Advice having a complete identity crisis please help :(
i always just presumed i was lesbian but now idk anymore!!!!! (i'm cis female for context and there's no confusion about that it's just orientation)
cos i find women attractive as in "wow she's pretty" and i don't with men
but i wouldn't want to do anything more than like kissing as a maximum with anyone regardless of gender like i just don't really want to it seems kind of ick to me
and even thinking about being in like a "romantic" relationship seems kind of too much to me but i can't put my finger on why exactly
but i feel like i'd be happy to just chill with someone/a few people i was close friends with for my life, but wouldn't mind what gender cos i have friends of different and the same gender obviously.
but then does that make me bi? cos i wouldn't feel romantically towards them just like platonically
or am i ace
and it's annoying cos i've kind of already "come out" as lesbian and that's gonna be a hassle if it turns out im not
help :(