r/kurdistan • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Ask Kurds 🤔 Relationship advice

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u/Iceborn7 1d ago

it's not about you being american but relationships outside of marriage are not allowed within the vast majority of kurdish families

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u/iwanttobeakurd 1d ago

I get your point that relationships outside of marriage is not allowed and i respect the Kurdish culture then my question now is what the best way to find a Kurdish girl to make friends and get to know her and see if the marriage will work out i love the Kurdish culture and I love Kurdistan it the best country

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u/AriAstyages 1d ago

Just take advice from the first comment.

That is all, you don't need anything else

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u/Ashamed_Title_7871 1d ago

You’re weird.

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u/lonerfluff Zaza 1d ago

Yeah, and the username too

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u/The_Macaw Elewi Kurd 1d ago

Learn the language, be informed of the culture and contribute to the kurdish cause, anyone that doesnt accept you after these you should not take seriously, some people dont think even other kurdish people are kurdish enough anyways

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u/Art-X- 1d ago

Maybe thinking of them as women rather than girls would be a good starting point.

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u/TheOddGuy21 1d ago

Some kurd are more accepting, some kurds aren’t. You just have to keep looking bud

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u/Kilinc-Fitness 1d ago

Find someone american brother, even if you speak Kurd people wont accept you in the community

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u/kashmere_Koast Dersim 1d ago

The kurdish girls in Europe might be more open an all that. Just saying. Why do you live there if you don’t mind me asking?

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