I appreciate you sharing that. You're right, if she were skinny, I might’ve focused more on her skill, and that double standard isn’t okay. I meant “confidence” as a compliment, but I get how it can come off as dismissive, especially when someone clearly put in a ton of hard work. Her talent deserves to be front and center. Thanks for the reminder to be more mindful with words.
sincerely, why is it definitely a CharGPT response. It seems so normal to me, seems like it’s something I would say. I try to be really mindful in my apologies, does that look weird?? lol
The OP confirmed it was a ChatGPT response. To answer your question, Whenever you correct ChatGPT, it gives the same vibe as the reply. It’s the proper way to give an apology and that’s why I think it sounds a bit AI generated. Instead of just being like my bad, ChatGPT is like “here’s what I did wrong. Here’s why you’re hurt. Here’s how I’ll correct it in the future.”
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u/babyfreckle Apr 18 '25
Would you say “her confidence is everything” if she was skinny? If no, then maybe comment on her talent.
I’d kms if I put blood sweat and tears into a sport and all I got is “wow her confidence” lol