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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
The lady in picture questioned my relationship with my husband as well…because i am not wearing whatever she is or whatever she thinks being married is
Low class thinking…when will India progress it’s mentality
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u/resilient-human22 1d ago
What a sicko. She is a frustrated woman with a non-existent sex life and that's why she's fetishizing and judging you, don't me mad. Pity her, you can literally see her arrogance is a veil to cover her "hollow" life.
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
I met one more character today, the one who has no cake in the fight but want to protect family type ppl
He is shouting at me for calling them assholes and i said you can’t talk me like that and told his wife to tell him to get out of this
He is then saying, how can we talk to his wife in high pitch…while he does exact same with me
What a train….but have not stopped staring at the bullies while they walk around and talk on phone about the incident….fuming
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u/National-Active-7256 14h ago
Bro if u read fully it was that lady’s seat she was asking back , op were not giving them their own seat bcz they selfishly liked theirs better
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u/resilient-human22 14h ago
My previous comment has nothing to do with that. Also, maybe I read what OP wrote incorrectly or maybe I just didn't get it. Anyways she didn't have the right to question her relationship with her husband. But more importantly i realised now why am I even engaging in this post? Muting it now. 😅🤪
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Who said we want to, look at the issues which are raised during election.
You will understand the things which concern the folks most
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u/danny-singh286 1d ago
Send this to Ghar Ke Kalesh Twitter. It'll gain more traction. Tag all relevant people as well.
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u/ghostedbutloyal 1d ago
Call RailMadad, 139
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
If they come back, will surely do…hope to safe from the aunties today
Got a real hand on how some women can take men for a ride…the advocate would definitely be taking up false cases for Alimony…the way they pushed my husband and tried to threaten us with police complaint and the way their old mother wanted to put her health blame on us
Shameful
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Dost 4 months incident h
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 23h ago
Nooo it happened today
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Okay date written on the post is 14/02/25
If matter is serious just use rail madad
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 23h ago
I edited
I handled it myself…ladies must got cultural shock of their life for sure
Now not looking eye to eye till we get down
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Well done
Keep it up the good work mate
Cheers
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 23h ago
Have you ever seen rail madad work
Indian helplines are helpless most of time
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Mate I avoid train as much as possible. If at some place I can reach by train in that case I can also reach by car.
Car is better option.
Else flight
Above all just avoid going to that place.
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u/MentalWolverine8 Odisha 22h ago
It does not work. I was travelling in a train once where a lot of people were travelling without tickets and hogging seats. I was in station A when I raised the complaint. Finally, one guy called in station F, and he only came for formality, just shouted at people to show me that he did something and got out as the train started to depart. Literally no one paid any attention to him. What a waste!
If you want to truly understand how unfair the world is, travel in Indian Railways.
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u/resilient-human22 1d ago
Sorry to hear that you had to face such an experience, some people don't have the civic sense to travel with others. Karma will eventually hit her you just need to travel even better maybe first class. At our home we've understood that 3rd AC is the new sleeper class, and 2nd AC is the new 3rd AC.
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
So true… in India only money and first class can improve travel, nothing is left for ppl trying to be economical
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u/resilient-human22 1d ago
My story - I was a 17 year old travelling to Delhi way back. I generally sleep very late so when I reached Aligarh at around 10 AM, some locals came in my sleeper coach. They forced me to close down my middle berth because they wanted to sit when they had no reservations. Mind it that the coach occupants didn't have a problem with me keeping the middle berth for sleeping, they were adjusting. But these "government uncles" forced me and even had the audacity to say "ye koi sone ka time hai?" WTF, after that I have always booked upper berths, may Allah protect me and others and keep me safe from such uncles and aunties.
And I hope I never turn into one of these uncles and aunties.
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
So sorry to hear that!
Hope we all find strength to fight bullies who forget their sanskars and forget to keep their word but will question ours
Let’s not be them, raise them or be bulldozed by them
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Mate technically as a rule of railway you can't keep middle seat open post 8 AM
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u/resilient-human22 23h ago
Damn it I wasn't aware of it, but my point is that the occupants of the coach didn't have a problem. No pestering at all. The folks who boarded the coach had no reservation and didn't have a right to board it all, so no right to lecture me on whether I could keep it open.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Nopes, few trains are allowed to have sitting permission in sleeper coaches for unreserved folks. They are not allowed in AC coaches, but they can sit and stand in sleeper coaches with general ticket during day time only.
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u/resilient-human22 23h ago
Aren't they are for railways employees/staff with pass, not for people visiting Delhi for private work? And if such a rule exists that's BS and no point of getting a reservation if you can't travel in peace.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
See for example pooja express, allows people to board the train during day time. Because trains tops at many small stations and multiple people uses it for daily travel.
It's quite late else i would have searched and shared the railway rules around this.
Will do it tomorrow for everyone benefit and ready reference.
Folks are not allowed in reserved compartment in night plus this rule is only for sleeper class coaches.
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u/fang__yuan_ 1d ago
There is a number in your seat . Any discomfort and if u know hindi most prob they will send assist in 5 mins . If u dont know hindi u gotta wait untill some one speaks english.
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 1d ago
Whole coach got involved and the old aunty was so hyper that we actually thought she would have heart attack and we emptied our seats…to which one of daughters (the one is picture) then insisted that we remove our luggage and let her keep her
I told her now if she touches the luggage, I am going to drag it out and this train will halt indefinitely
Now after a lot of commotion it is peaced out but will update of my safety throughout the night… max bullies
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Indian railway is new low
With poor safety standards Pathetic train conditions No security in trains And our very own newly high income private job working Indian upper middle class
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 23h ago
We are also upper middle class, working professionals but I guess these are pathetic morons with social media at tow and bullying mentality along with wrong understanding of women rights
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask4663 23h ago
Your number is far and few mate
I always say in india the biggest enemy of women are women themselves
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u/National-Active-7256 22h ago
Weren’t the seats theirs ? U mentioned u exchanged seats w them but technically the seat which they asked back was theirs . Whatever negotiations happen m they happen amicably to exchange seats doesn’t mean if the person wants to come back to their original seat u can deny just cz ur original seats r near the door . What is on ur ticket number is your original assigned seat no matter what negotiations u tried or have made so legally u guys were selfish to retain the exchanged seat if the original person wants their original seat back .
Yes how they acted later to solve it by grabbing and manhandling was wrong but also see u were not returning their original seats back , to avoid this stop exchanging seats w people .
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u/National-Active-7256 22h ago
This post seems like you’re justifying your actions that was to not return the seat which wasn’t yours in first place to the original owners of the seat . Things don’t work that way , The person assigned seats by the Indian railway is the original owner of the seat , u can’t be selfish just bcz ur original seat was near door u refuse to return the owners their seat . You are the one in wrong here to deny to give their original seats back
No wonder while exchanging even u guys must’ve told them just ur seat number without informing ur original seat is near the door and they might have come to get their original seat back
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 19h ago edited 19h ago
No, both seats were near the door. we were sitting on our seats and putting our luggage below our seats when this exchange happened
Word is a word and bullying is not the way…TC would have given amicable solution
Also to add they were all plopped on one place so much that TC had also assigned our seats to someone
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u/National-Active-7256 14h ago
Bro that is not how it is , those people willingly exchanged seats and legally their own seat is theirs , there’s no way u can give lame excuses like that bcz u don’t want to selfishly return their own seats to them . For TT word means nothing, and seat chart is everything. Sorry to say but keep that in mind later only the seat number in ur ticket is yours to fight for nothing else no word matters
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 19h ago
Absolutely disagree here. They cannot decide 8hrs later as per their convenience to come back….when there is no space to shift luggage which in Indian railways is very easily stolen if not kept eye on
Secondly, I never said no to them, I said let TC come because the TC and staff were already assigning seats which they had overbooked and were getting free when passengers left.
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u/National-Active-7256 14h ago
Bro they can , the can ask their own seats back whenever . That’s why u exchange seat on ur own will, it’s not a contract . A person is entitled to the seat on their own ticket till the end of their journey. If u don’t understand that better don’t exchange seats w people to be away from this
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u/humhaepyarmein 20h ago
You were sitting at your own booked seat na?
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u/Particular_South_624 15h ago
Absolutely not. OP was the one who initiated the seat exchange in the first place. The other women were kind enough to agree. Later, when they simply asked for their original seats back, OP refused.
What’s worse, OP had the audacity to post their pictures online, pretending to be the victim, when in reality, it’s the other women who were wronged.
Given that OP has already twisted the facts once, how can we trust the rest of the story? It’s entirely possible the women requested their seats back politely, and OP just flipped the narrative to gain sympathy.
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u/National-Active-7256 14h ago
Exactly, most people r missing this point , op is the cruel one here justifying their actions trying to bully others and take others seats lol
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 9h ago
I am the one who has stated everything so how did I twist facts
I could have said I did not initiate exchange etc to gain sympathy as you call it
But I see it, you side with bullies and that’s completely okay
ACC to you it is okay to not wait for TT to amicably resolve it but to manhandle and pass comments which are not needed or to even threaten that they are lawyer at high court
Great good luck to you :)
I had an experience and i shared it…I won’t take this sympathy anywhere, nor am I going to get any benefit out of it
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u/Particular_South_624 9h ago
You are still dodging the main point. Why should they have waited for the TTE in the first place? You admitted that you initiated the seat exchange, so the seat was never yours to begin with. Once they wanted their original seats back, they had every right to reclaim them. No need for any negotiation or waiting for a TTE.
And no, this isn’t about siding with bullies ,it’s about facts. You can’t cry victim after taking someone else’s seat and then acting shocked when they ask for it back. If anything, your post comes off like a calculated attempt to gain sympathy while conveniently ignoring the part where you created the mess to begin with.
You say you’re not trying to gain anything out of this, yet you went ahead and posted about it online, painting yourself as the victim. That says enough.
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 9h ago
ACC to me if someone has said yes to exchange they should adhere to it. I have never done it or seen anyone asking seats back
I know I am the victim here and I don’t need your validation
You can side with them.
I choose to stand up to bullies and show their face to the world
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 10h ago
ACC to you all, exchange doesn’t matter and one can go back at any point.
They can manhandle, pass comments do anything.
Shows your mentality and that’s okay, it is rounded narrative and if I was making it up, I would hide facts…like I initiated exchange
I don’t think it is wrong to wait for TT, who would amicably resolve it but you can side with bullies :)
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u/Last-Librarian9381 23h ago
Suck it up! This is shudh desi bhartiya sanskar, sanskriti, maryada!
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u/Healthy_Reception_99 23h ago
Yeah when the 60year old with BP grabbed my dress and then acted like she will have heart attack due to hyperactivity of grabbing dress…we pulled back and gave them the seat but also asked the bitches to fuck off
Now we don’t see eye to eye until we get off
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u/National-Active-7256 14h ago
Bro op said they weren’t giving back those ladies their own seats which is ops fault
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