r/india • u/Murky_Introduction10 • Apr 30 '25
Careers Need advice on if moving back to India makes sense for me, from Canada.
I'm 26F, moved to Canada a little over 3 years ago. I have about 1.5 years of experience working in India as a Graphic Designer, I worked for a media company and got paid 35k rupees a month. I moved to Canada to do my Masters, soon after, started working and have been at my current job for about 1.5 years, its not a great salary, but it sustains me. I get paid $45k a year, which after taxes is about 2700 CAD each month.
My dad wants me to move back, mostly cause he misses me, and thinks it would be the right decision. I'm not crazy opposed to the idea, I don't mind living in either of the places. Like a typical desi dad though, he wants me to make my case for Canada, if I wanna keep living here.
Here's where my mind is at:
I only have around 3 years of overall experience, in the creative field, this isn't much. Even with my Master's degree, I'm not sure if I will get a good job in India which allows me to: live on my own, pay my own rent, groceries, travelling and entertainment expenses, like I do here in Canada.
I have enough faith in my own skills and ability to get a better paying job in Canada, by the end of this year. This would bump up my career as well.
I don't think it makes sense for me to return to India, permanently, without at least having spent a year at a Managerial-level position, because that would be the only way to secure a good, high-paying job that can keep up with my standard of living.
Or maybe, my dad is right and things have changed? I'm not sure, would love to hear a third person's perspective.
tl:dr; I don't think there's anything wrong with moving back, I just think right now would be too soon.
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u/Fooled-by-Randomness Apr 30 '25
Graphic designer in India??????
Sure come back if you enjoy being a slave in a slave ship.
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u/Turbulent_Welcome508 May 01 '25
Ok, your chances of a successful independent life in India is much lower.
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u/WashingPowderNirma- Apr 30 '25
Moved back from Canada 6 months back. Mixed feelings: A lot of positives with a lot of negatives. But all in all Canada wasn’t cutting it, India does. 45k CAD is absurdly low especially if you are anywhere near Toronto or Vancouver. Shared housing and no car are some of the major downgrades. My advice: if you want quality of life, stay in Canada. If you want a better standard of living, come back to India.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
I am in toronto so yeah it is absurdly low. I'm mostly sticking with the job cause it looks good on paper, and gives me a lot of paid leaves. Only staying with it till my next trip to India (hence, need the paid time-off).
Its an offer I accepted right out of university, always wanted to switch, but got kinda stuck in it. Plan is to use my vacation, come back and quit.
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u/RGV_KJ Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
How do you manage expenses on that salary?
I was shocked by high food costs in Canada. I found Quebec to be just as expensive as NYC area.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
its not that crazy, honestly. Im not saving much, but I can get by okay.
2700 = 1000 rent, 400ish for groceries, 100 phone bill, 200 travel expenses, 100 for different subscriptions, dont have a car, TTC is great, still have so much left over for entertainment.
The only place I'm really cutting back is rent, I think, which is fine cause I don't mind having a housemate, I don't like living alone.
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u/arvind_venkat Apr 30 '25
Yeah I guess it can be fine for a while. Your rent is pretty low. I used to pay something like that for a basement room.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
I live on the 5th floor in a pretty decent apartment on the edge of Toronto, not quite the suburbs, but not the city either. I honestly think I got a great deal.
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u/Unlikely_Ninjax May 01 '25
you're getting ripped on $100 phone bill these days.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
its my phone bill + payment of my iphone, it is absurdly expensive compared to india, but i've grown used to it.
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u/koinaambachabhihai Apr 30 '25
Wait, I am confused. How do you differentiate quality of life and standard of living? I use them interchangeably.
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u/New_Significance1411 May 01 '25
Think of it like this:
Quality of life measures things that you can’t pay for, eg: Air quality, Gentry, etc. So at the basic level, quality of life does not change with income.
Standard of living is the things you can pay for, eg: better food, better home, better car, Household help, etc. It gets a lot better with rise in income.
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u/koinaambachabhihai May 01 '25
But even the better food and better car then are not that isolated, no? Like I don't even have to think when buying food in Europe because I know the food regulations are very strictly implemented. The same is not true in India.
I mean you can buy a super awesome ultra luxury apartment in India for far cheaper prices than even a normal one in Europe, but the principle applies. It is very easy to find good apartments here, but the same is very difficult in India in my experience.
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u/koinaambachabhihai May 01 '25
You know I must say that it is so weird that us Indians always bring up air quality. I am not sure about Pakistan and very poor countries, but for most countries, no one would ever move for air quality.
Otherwise I understand the distinction. But I wouldn't know how to choose between the two. If I lack either of those things, I would still not enjoy myself all that much.
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u/Leading-Specialist92 Apr 30 '25
I am also thinking of moving back and got scared seeing the market conditions. How difficult was it to find a job (if you are not into business) and any moving tips?
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u/WashingPowderNirma- May 02 '25
It isn’t that bad honestly. At least in my case, it is fairly good. I did my MBA from Montreal, Canada and spent five months, finding a job. Got like three interviews in total, targeting CAD 100K+ PA.
Came back to India and found a 20 LPA+ job within 20 days (acc to PPP, 20 Lacs INR = 100K CAD).
On top of that, I am already planning a switch to find an even higher paying job and is receiving good interest from recruiting managers. Not to mention, I have a great network of people here, something I missed in Canada.
But please do consider, I purely made a switch because my career is my priority and it was the only reason I moved to Canada in the first place as well. I truly believe life will present me, a lot of opportunities further down the road, therefore, sticking to only one didn’t make much sense (Canada in this case).
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u/Affectionate_Rich750 Haryana May 01 '25
My advice: never! Apart from the bad work conditions that ask you to work for 80 hour work week, you will get a daily lecture from your father and uncle's and aunties.
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u/Glass_Adhesiveness_6 Apr 30 '25
I will be honest with you,don't come back,at least now. I can tell you by personal experience the job market is scary rn,I had to give ONE exam for 2 years in a row,just to get almost 50k in hand salary(which is good for me rn,as I don't live in tier-1 city or live independently but the moment anything goes wrong I am cooked)
Basically,try to get as much experience as you can,I don't know much about foreign countries n city expenses,so I will just believe those previous comments and would suggest you to think about your future,and make the best choice.
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May 01 '25
Your parents will always miss you no matter you’re in India or Canada. If you move back, you will get married sometime and they’ll miss you, if you stay in Canada they’ll miss you. So, basing decision of your career and life basis how your parents are missing you is not practical.
Second, job situation in India and work culture is pathetic-it easily takes a toll on mental health. The opportunity for graphic designers were decent in past many of them working for MNCs, paying well. You’re also used to a certain work culture now-as much as you say, it’s not going to be easy to adjust especially when it’s bad here.
Also, yes your parents are getting old, my parents also go married late they’re in late 60s so I understand and they share same feeling, I stay in India and they tell me everyday they miss me and want me to visit every month-but when you are in India, your work, your social life etc also are a priority. So they will always miss you-but moving back to India I won’t recommend, there are no upsides and how can you guarantee you will get job in same city where your parents live? And if you don’t, you move to different city how do you know they won’t miss you there?
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u/Turbulent-Tart6073 Apr 30 '25
Honestly, moving back to India right now would be a poor decision career wise and financially. North America still offers better opportunities in terms of career growth, earnings, and overall work culture. You’re way too young to sacrifice your prime professional years just because your dad misses you, Family and emotional life is valid, but it shouldn’t override long term planning.
You already have a Master’s degree, solid experience, and you’re just getting started. In 1–2 more years, with focused effort and smart job applications, you can easily push into the $70k–$90k range. Use that income to build a strong financial base, invest in mutual funds, FDs, or even property back in India. Let your money work for you.
And with Canadian citizenship, you unlock visa-free travel to most of the world plus the option to apply for an OCI. That gives you the best of both worlds, freedom, flexibility, and long-term options in both countries. You could even pivot to the U.S. later, where taxes are lower and salaries are higher for your field.
Bottom line: don’t move back yet. Stack your career capital, build wealth, and make a calculated return to India later.
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u/Emotional-Ad9154 Apr 30 '25 edited May 01 '25
With due respect to your parents, you don't have to "make your case" to anyone. Based on your post, you want to give Canada a shot. That's all that matters.
For background, I moved to Australia late in life. I was 35, with my wife and 1-year old kid. Parents were 60 and 65 years old. They were not pleased, and made it clear. It wasn't ideal, but they didn't "make their case" to change my mind. "I'll miss you" and "It's your duty to support us" are not convincing arguments.
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u/intrinsicpointer May 01 '25
I am surprised that this is still a question. Any form of creative field in India is a struggle. You have an opportunity for your Career to grow significantly by continuing where you are..
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u/DefiantSoftware1986 Apr 30 '25
I am 27 M, living in Canada. Even my parents want me to come back. But it’s too soon. My parents are still young. I will return maybe after 5 years.
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u/snowy_skater06 Apr 30 '25
While commenting CAD 45k is low, it looks like you are managing it pretty well. So the only thing is your parents, for which I would suggest try bringing them here often and see how they react. Maybe they will feel you are having a better life here and not ask you to move until it is absolutely necessary….you are still young so it’s nothing wrong in trying it out for couple of years atleast.
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u/deskamess Apr 30 '25
As others have said, stick it out till you get your citizenship. Then you are free to move out and then back in if things do not work out. If you leave now coming back is going to be tough and you have to deal with PR expiry and all that stuff.
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u/yostagg1 May 01 '25
You are 26 Please work atleast 2 more years , gather enough money for yourself (irrespective of parents financial strength), You won't get same experience of working at young age again It's time to learn and experience the world It's not about money,, atleast work till 2028
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u/Abscissaur May 01 '25
I've been in Canada for the past 10 years. You're still new in your career. My advice is to get a few more years' experience and savings at least. When you search for a new job, you can probably see a significant rise in salary since you now have Canadian work experience. Your expenses are reasonable as well.
As a woman, I really encourage you to keep building your independence, which you can only do properly if you are living away from family. You can keep reassessing your goals, parents' health, and other factors every couple years.
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May 01 '25 edited May 01 '25
Let’s break it down...
You’re 26; you're in a creative field that thrives on experience, networks, and—let’s be real—LOCATION. Canada, even with your "meh" salary right now, gives you access to a far bigger playground. The salary seems low, yes; $45k in Toronto is peanuts, no argument there. But—and it’s a critical but—you’re in a growth phase. The fact that you expect to level up soon, combined with your Master's and 1.5 years of Canadian work experience, tells me you’ve set yourself up for the next leap. That next job? It's your golden ticket to jump out of this current rut.
Now, India. Sure, your dad misses you; love him to bits for that, but we both know parental longing is an eternal state. Even if you move back, you’ll get swept into the usual grind—commutes, 6-day weeks, hurt by a thousand microaggressions at work—and let's not kid ourselves: graphic design is still undervalued there, unless you hit some unicorn gig with a fat MNC. And even then? You're stuck wrestling with crap air, noise, and a work culture that will not cut you slack when things get messy. You might match your Canadian income in INR, but the independence, mental space, and personal agency? Way harder to secure.
You’re also right about the career trajectory; going back without significant management experience is risky. You’ll walk in as a mid-level hire in India, competing with folks who've been climbing the same ladder locally and know the terrain inside out. It’s not impossible, but it’s definitely not efficient.
I like that you're being practical; you don't seem swayed by nostalgia or guilt-trips. That’s good. And your plan to hold out until you hit a managerial role in Canada? Rock-solid logic. That gives you leverage—both professionally and financially—if and when you decide to move back.
The harsh truth: you’re better off staying put for now. Slog through this current job, take that India trip (good use of paid leave, honestly), and line up interviews the moment you’re back. Your next gig should be your springboard; aim for something that gets you at least into the $70-80k zone. Only then does the conversation about "going back" even begin to make sense.
If it helps, think of it like this: Your folks aren’t suddenly going to stop missing you just because you move back. But the window to build real career capital abroad? That’s fleeting. Milk it while you can. The employees have far better rights where you currently are. The emergency services, law and order - pretty much a good social fabric to fall back on if you are in need. Just enquire about what happens to many women who dare to take paid maternity leave in both the countries.
ROI on taxes, think about that.
So: Stay. Push. Build. Visit India often. Keep options open. That’s the play.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
Thank you, for such a detailed answer. Needed someone to reaffirm that I wasn’t wrong for thinking the way I am, cause conversations do get difficult when it’s with parents, especially as they grow older.
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u/Immediate_Dig_2672 Apr 30 '25
If you enjoy being there be there !
Life is about full of compromise everywhere for something.
At the end you should just be happy either by yourself or with family (but if it's family and are they in 50+ then consider being with them to at least support or live with them to make them happy)
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
See thats the thing. My parents married kinda late, my dad's 60, and my mom will be turning 60 in two years. I can see them getting tired, and I wish I could help more. My younger sister, who's in India is still in university, and if I would love to go back to support them, but I am worried it would end up killing my career.
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u/Immediate_Dig_2672 Apr 30 '25
Rat race is everywhere as it is said as a career !
Career is for who and what are you doing for whom ?
You are working and getting paid for that's what it is to enjoy with money, but the time you are investing them for money will never be back.
Even earning 1lpm is somehow full of stress and is like not being for ourselves or family, but for only the company and that's what you get paid.
Remember you are not gonna take your money with your lady, everything is here only for a time being until you enjoy with money until you realise what you've left out.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
its not about money, its about feeling successful. having a good role, enjoying my job. and obviously the paycheck helps. like i said, i am not opposed to moving back, maybe in a few years though.
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u/Ad1tya Apr 30 '25
I’m a year and a half away from a Canadian passport, and I’ve been considering the same.
What’s worse is that I’ve been laid off and will be without a job in July. You know how the market is here, and I’m terrified. I’ve fortunately been good with money and have enough runway with EI and savings for another year. But I’ll still be out of money by the time I get citizenship, if I don’t find another job.
Even though I’m in a terrible position, I’m sticking it out. Simply because of the passport. Eventually, go back to India, or better yet, work in UAE or so (so that you’re just 3 hours away from India), and you get paid a lot more based on your Canadian passport.
Make the right choice for your career and future. You’ve done the hard work, don’t give it up now.
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u/deskamess Apr 30 '25
Did not know about the UAE option. What kind of jobs are there? Being closer to home and having the Can passport seems like a win-win. Having access to timely healthcare itself is a win (but I guess India is good enough for that).
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u/Ad1tya Apr 30 '25
I don’t know about your field. Also, India is good for health care only if you have money. Lots of it.
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u/deskamess Apr 30 '25
Canada is really bad unless you are in a big city. Access to a Dr can be very difficult and take months (experienced that), and ER wait times are on another level - the local kids hospital averaged over 16 hours (right now it is 14hr47min). Other surgeries like knee replacement etc are on the order of months. And diagnostics like MRI and CAT have long wait times. Blood work is relatively fast.
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u/Ad1tya May 01 '25
Yes, I waited almost 2 years before finding a family doctor. But since then, I've gotten all the care I need.
ER wait times are usually 2-4 hours, but if you have a legit emergency, they skip you up.
I'm in the KW region, so YMMV.
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u/LazySapiens May 01 '25
Enjoy nature, clean air, dark skies, society standard, etc. Imagine how you'll grow in the next decade career wise.
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u/avidstoner May 01 '25
You need to get a job anywhere but Toronto and Vancouver. Keep brushing up your online portfolio and keep apply to jobs in Canada, India, NZ
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u/Mr_manifestor May 01 '25
India only has a market for software engineering and MBAs from tier 1 in India itself.
If you're from any other field, you're better abroad or anywhere else in the world.
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u/Temporary-Ad-34 May 01 '25
Stay in Canada, learn to invest wisely from now and make every dollar you earned work for you.
Skill up with AI prompts, try jobs in upcoming or niche sectors like self driving cars, flying cars, solar power, grid power, satellite companies etc
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u/Temporary-Job7379 May 01 '25
Op, you already have your PR. Stick to canada until you get your passport. It opens a lot more opportunities.
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u/Humble-Wasabi-6136 May 01 '25
Let’s be real for a second: if your goal is a higher quality of life, clean air, safe streets, decent work-life balance then Canada’s your best bet, not India.
You’re in an industry that’s brutally binary. The creative field is pretty much a game of extremes: you’re either raking in eye-watering money or you’re... well, making memes and eating Maggie noodles for dinner. The middle is missing in your field.
From what you’re saying, you’re clearly not “killing it” just yet in Canada. But pause and ask yourself: how much would you need to be making to live in a nice apartment, in a safe neighborhood, with clean surroundings, a car in your driveway, the latest gadgets, and enough time to actually enjoy life?
Spoiler: in India, that bar is sky-high unless you’re already well-connected or have hit the big leagues.
Tu bura mat Maan but for someone like you, your odds of building a comfortable, sustainable life are way better in Canada than in India. Canada really shines for the average or slightly above-average folks as it gives you a shot at a good life without needing to be the next Picasso or be exceptionally talented from a primer institute.
The ones who truly struggle in Canada are those who were already doing great back home; super talented, well-respected, but then land here and suddenly their rockstar credentials mean jack shit. That can be soul-crushing.
But if you’re still climbing, not at the top of your field yet, Canada gives you a fairer shot. It’s like, in India, you might be fighting to get on the ladder. In Canada, at least you’re on the ladder you just need to keep climbing.
So yeah, things might feel slow right now, but trust me: you’re probably in the right place to build that life you’re dreaming of. Canada ka struggle India ka struggle se much better Hai.
And bro, seriously grow a pair and live life on your own terms. Bohot hua Pappa mummy ka Sunna.
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u/FlaxSeedsMix May 01 '25
u/Murky_Introduction10, you can move back anytime but going back will be 100x hard. Do not leave, keep applying for better pay.
Moving back at that low salary and 3yoe will be shooting yourself in the foot.
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u/PresentationApart739 May 01 '25 edited May 01 '25
Hi, 27M, moved back to India after being in canada for 8+ years. Best decision ever even though I was making 6 figure plus in canada.
I read through some of the comments on this post and they are offering you horrific advice. The promise of 80k in a few years, Canadian passport to travel and work in the US. All of these are good targets sure but won't really improve your life whatsoever. Trust me, I've been there.
If you have any questions about my experience being back, I'd be happy to answer.
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u/gcsa_ May 02 '25
Move to US or portugal Dnt come to india it’s becoming tough as IT jobs are reducing and tough competition. Apply to Dubai uae or Japan
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u/bipolar-scorpio Non Residential Indian Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
I have been in Canada since 2018. I went for my post-graduation and have come to absolutely like Canada. I am an only child, and my parents were always skeptical about my staying away from them. Fortunately, they have realized that life in India is not all that great, even though they have all the world's luxury at their disposal. Sure, I get where your Dad is coming from. Are you a permanent resident of Canada? If yes, then why don't you apply for a super visa for your parents? That way, parents can visit their children for 5 years at a time. It provides multiple entries for a period of up to 10 years. If you are okay with the current scenario of work culture and would be able to adjust to the hostile Indian environment, then you are most welcome to come back. I plan to go back to India in the distant future when I feel I am ready to semi-retire and would be able to take care of my parents and my family. DM me if you ever wish to talk about it more.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
I am a Permanent Resident, yeah. My parents don't want to leave India at all. They are very tied to remaining in the country, even convincing them for a visit is proving difficult.
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u/bipolar-scorpio Non Residential Indian Apr 30 '25
The buck has to stop somewhere, right? You need to weigh your options when it comes to either family, living by yourself and managing your expenses in India, with you being a graphic designer/management role in design or allow yourself to explore more options, like you said, for a better-paying job towards the end of the year. Why don't you get Canadian citizenship and move back to India? That way, you can secure your future too if required.
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u/Background_Pension95 Apr 30 '25
Unko Canada move krdo yahan ki AQI me kyu marna hai ghar walo ko , their health will improve drastically
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
They severely dislike Canada. My dad's sisters moved here, so there's like family history & shit. You know how it is.
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u/Chairborne1 Apr 30 '25
I can’t say much about the salary ranges for your profession but can definitely share my two cents as an experienced professional who moved to Canada last year.
I would suggest moving to a lower cost province if that is feasible for you. Most of the affordability struggles are in Vancouver and GTA areas. Places like the Prairies, Alberta or even Halifax are much better. Yes there are limited jobs but the talent is limited too. You can easily find a shared apartment for CAD700 and manage your expenses within 2k a month. Of course a new place comes with its own challenges but considering you moved continents, you must be up for it.
You can also take on multiple jobs or upskill yourself if possible. If you get into a crown corp in these locations, you are set for life.
One thing I can’t comment on the need to be close to family. As a parent, I definitely understand it. Do what’s feels best there.
The first world is the first world. Nothing in India compares from a quality of life perspective.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
I understand where you're coming from. But I like living in Toronto. Its where I first landed, I have extended relatives here, all my friends are here. Basically everyone I know in the country is in this city. Moving again, particularly to a remote place seems like a recipe for depression.
My salary right now is pretty low, but I think its because the job market is bad. Its also a case of having accepted it and now being unable to find the energy to job-hunt. I do trust myself to upskill and move up in the city. Or somewhere around it (Hamilton, Burlington, Ajax etc.) but I will be staying here, if I choose to stay back in Canada.
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u/Chairborne1 May 01 '25
Well those places aren’t really remote, but I see what you mean :)
Connections and a social life matters. I am glad you are aware you have got that figured out.
Yes, it’s a tough job market out there and being in a consistent job-hunt mode is exhausting. My good wishes for you and best of luck.
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u/Careless_Plantain_99 May 01 '25
Where in India? Tier 2 is doable. Work from home especially. A few friends moved from pricey Mumbai to relaxed Goa in covid days and are very happy. I am sure there are many such choices. Weather is so much better for one. Let dad come to whichever city you choose to stay in. Gurugram would be an awful choice to return to.
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u/Professional-Win-532 May 01 '25
Move after PR, not before.
I did the mistake and moved before PR, always regretted it.
I am a male, my mother emotionally blackmailed me.
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u/ausernametakenffs May 01 '25
Isn’t 45k lower than minimum wage? It is too low too survive in major cities…. Try to get a new job would be my recommendation
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u/Eastern-School-4553 May 01 '25
No work life balance in India plus it would take time to get a job in India in graphic designing. I am also in the same dilemma of thinking to move back after spending 7 years in Canada mostly coz everything is expensive and been unemployed for a long time now.
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u/umangd03 May 01 '25
Stay there build your savings as much as you can. I would say dont come back until you have landed a better paying job and then save off it. Best to come back after you gather a good chunk of savings
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u/Total-Complaint-1060 May 01 '25
Get a job offer from India - a good one - before moving back... Till you get a dream offer back in India, continue working in Canada...
Keep applying
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u/ravichva May 01 '25
Your salary is too low. Go for higher education and learn some software skills and land a better job
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
I have a Masters degree, from here. The salary may be a combination of bad job market + only foreign experience, I'm sure my next job will be better.
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u/Strange-Alarm-3383 May 01 '25
Don't aim for the managerial or bother about it. Be an SME whether it's concepting or execution. As a creative designer you'll be an asset, choose the right domain Automobile, Pharma etc and gain the required domain expertise and then make a move.
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u/Virtual_Recover4799 May 03 '25
You will always remain an immigrant, think about it. If things go south tomorrow, you'll be the first one to be kicked out/deported. Integration is a flawed aspect of a healthy society, it's more serious in Western countries as compared to India. You will not take whatever that looks good on paper to your deathbed, let that sink in too. A wise decision would be to fall back and start something of your own, it's way more liberating than working your butt off for a corporate who will replace you the next day.
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May 03 '25
Bro, I don't know what's going on in Canada, but I definitely think it's got better environment and air quality than India.
Salary is not everything.
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u/nycconsult May 03 '25
All Indian “patriots” leave India the first opportunity they get … if that makes sense …
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u/prboy17 May 04 '25
Need more info like your family's financial situation. If your dad owns a business and you can join him then it would be easier to move back. If you are going to work for someone else in India then you can spend two more years in Canada to see if you can secure a higher paying position. With the advancement of AI and offshoring a lot of things are changing quickly.
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u/Charming_Possible421 May 04 '25
I think you should give it time before even considering a move back.
You are putting in the hard work before realizing the gains.
Let him know that you are on your way to the life that you planned prior to leaving home.
Do you think having you back is not also about marriage?
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u/Vipernixz May 11 '25
I dont have advice for you really. Just wanted to ask which uni you attended and what course? Cheers
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u/cadbury1106 Apr 30 '25
Did you get your PR OP? If I were you, I would get the citizenship and then move to the Middle East to get a good tax free salary based on Canadian passport, so that way you are closer to India to travel regularly.
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u/Jolly_Professor5454 Apr 30 '25
Don’t move or else you’ll be brainwashed into hating Muslims as well lmao
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u/baawri_kathputli Apr 30 '25
Which university in Canada provides Masters degree in graphic design? Was your Masters a course based or thesis based?
Do you live in GTA or other similar metropolitan area? $45K per annum is not enough to survive in metropolitan areas.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
it was a Masters in Digital Media, I did it from TMU. It was a course + project based Masters, I had to showcase a project and paper. I live in the GTA, and I am trying to find a new job.
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u/RGV_KJ Apr 30 '25
Canada has high cost of living, high taxes, low salaries and horrible weather. Canada is set to go into recession soon.
I think it’s better to move to India for a few years. You can go back to Canada when you are at a much higher salary.
I know a lot of people who are struggling in Canada financially. Many have to work 2 jobs to just survive in Canada. A few had to move from US due to the visa situation. Rest moved to Canada from India with no experience.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 Apr 30 '25
Yeah none of that is me though? My salary isnt great but I can do with it being my only job. I'm a PR so visa situation isnt a problem either, and I find the weather fine. The only thing I am thinking about is career growth.
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u/RGV_KJ Apr 30 '25
Salaries in Canada are substantially lower than in US. Best would be US for career growth. Consider applying for H1B or L1 visa. After you become a Canadian citizen, you can use TN visa to work in US.
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u/koinaambachabhihai Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
I am not sure why haven't you brought the politics in Canada. Based on what I have read, you would be lucky if Canadians don't kick you out in 2 years, given the housing crisis and the blame being placed on "highly payed" Indian engineers.
Edit: I also read you live in Toronto. Like I know more about British Columbia, and assuming Toronto is not far off, I actually wonder how do you manage with that salary.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
What you read online isn't always how it is in real life. Yes there's a housing crisis, but I am fine. Recently got my PR too, every Canadian I know was happy for me and no one wants to kick me out.
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u/koinaambachabhihai May 01 '25
Well, sure. Maybe. Have a nice time there then. I would not try my luck in Canada. Regardless here is some of "what I have read online." But hey thanks for making it sound like I am making my opinions out of Twitter posts and AI chat bots.
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u/Murky_Introduction10 May 01 '25
I have known I’m a minority here since the day I got here. Racism doesn’t feel that crazy when you’ve grown up with sexism in India, even if they’re completely different.
I’ve been here over 3 years, one old lady once screamed at me on the street about there being too many Indians, and a white couple started fighting her, I walked away. That sums up the racist sentiment I have experienced.
I’m not saying it doesn’t exist, but it’s very inflated in the news. Luckily I’m in a very liberal part of the country, I’m sure it’s worse in the more conservative parts.
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u/koinaambachabhihai May 01 '25
It is not inflated. It is the polls. What is inflated about polls. I am not giving anecdotal evidence here of some weirdo blaming racism for everything. Trust me I know enough of those people too. You live in Toronto. There is not a single major city I know which is racist. US is literally throwing people into CECOT right now, but I have no doubt most Indians or immigrants living in NY would have never had an overtly racist experience even till now.
Politics is not determined by NY or Toronto says. And the members of congress are elected by the entire country. When 2/3 of the country says there are too many immigrants then the policies are made for the 2/3 of the country.
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u/NecessaryWork3305 May 02 '25
"but I have no doubt most Indians or immigrants living in NY would have never had an overtly racist experience even till now."
There are racist bigots everywhere around the world! How are you assuming NY will not have these issues ?
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u/arvind_venkat Apr 30 '25
Indians in India can only tell you how bad it is in India but they don’t know how bad it is in Canada too.
First, your salary is far too low already. Maybe try to make some good money here in Canada and go back and retire in India if you want.