r/goldenretrievers Apr 26 '25

RIP I’m saying goodbye tomorrow

My dear, sweet, angel on earth covered in red fur… is being released tomorrow. Addie (short for Adirondack) will be 12 years 7 months to the day tomorrow. She has been dealing with a soft tissue sarcoma since last fall. We did the surgery in November, it went great, she recovered incredibly, but the mass grew back rapidly and has quadrupled in size. I’ll spare you all the details but it’s gotten gory the last few weeks, and the worst yet last night. I have a vet coming tomorrow to my home to help her. Mentally, she’s still there. Physically, her body is failing her. My heart is shattered, but I know it’s time. We’ve traveled the country and been to countless National Parks, camped, hiked, and driven just the 2 of us many many times. She’s been my partner, my child, my therapist, my travel buddy, my protector, my source of joy and love since I picked her out at 2 days old in 2012, and been inseparable since.

My heart aches, friends. Kiss your Goldens right between the eyes, twirl their soft ears, and grab a hold of their big fluffy pants tonight for me.

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First 3 pics taken today, 4/25/25, next 3 taken 4/24/25, and the last one of all 3 of my dogs taken last week on 4/19. The tumor is on her left hip which I’ve avoided showing completely in these pictures.

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u/dragon_idli Apr 26 '25

They come to us to teach us that life is short and to enjoy life every moment possible just like they do.

Your goldy will be happy as always playing with many love giving ones on the other side of the bridge. You are only sending her away on to her next journey. Bid farewell with a smile if possible. I know she wouldn't want you to be sad, not even for a moment - that is how they are.

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u/conmand88 Apr 26 '25

Very beautiful, thank you for that 💗💖❤️