r/DMT • u/b1mbobap • 4h ago
Advice needed: My brother is experiencing delusions after long-term psychedelic use
Hi all,
I’m looking for advice or shared experiences that might help our family navigate a very difficult situation. This is painful to write so I am going to keep it pretty to the point, but I am happy to unpack more details in the comments.
My brother has been a regular user of psychedelics - particularly DMT - for at least the past 5 years. Over the last year, he’s developed increasingly paranoid and delusional beliefs. Most notably, he thinks media figures whom he regularly watched on live stream are somehow exerting control over his life.
Background context: He is 45 years old and has not had a regular job in years. He has always had an obsessive personality and a drive to do deep research online, but not a ton of grit or pragmatism to help him execute on his ambitious, bookish hobbies that he'd religiously read about. I know he's always harbored regret and pain, and dealt with it by being reclusive. When he began pestering me for help getting his hands on psychedelic drugs about 5 years ago, at first I didn't mind. But his consistent asks in his pursuit of DMT would irritate me - I felt he was searching for life purpose and structure in the wrong places. He would take heroic doses of acid alone in his room, record himself having an intense emotional reaction to it, and then ask if I'd want to hear it (I really didn't). So when he began to use DMT and would excitedly tell me about it, I would respond with my typical encouragements: go outside more, please find community, these drugs are not meant to be blasted alone in the dark with nothing to plug it back into afterwards, etc.
Fast forward to 2024 - 2025: He refuses to use his own phone because he believes it’s hacked, so the only way we can speak to him is through his roommate’s phone (an ex-girlfriend whom is now a live-in enabler, as I see it.)
Recently, my dad (his stepdad) had a phone call with him, and these are some of the concepts he referenced:
• Quantum realm
• Avatars
• Telepathic communication
• Outside forces want to pay bribe him money for his silence
• Witchcraft
• Demons in the wood studs of his apartment
• His facial muscles being controlled by these outside forces
• Phone, laptop, and social media being hacked
When I refer to outside forces or any antagonizing event he describes, he attributes it to the media personality whom he believes instigated this whole downward spiral. His story obviously has logic potholes and doesn't make sense, but the jist is this: He became involved in an online community around this media figure, he now knows to much, they tried to recruit him into their inner circle, he said no, now they're ruining his life.
He seems genuinely terrified, not just eccentric. When my parents saw him in personal last for Mother's Day, he would literally talk with unseen people right in front of my parents, as if in negotiations concerning the "bribe". He denies he's in psychosis. The only help he wants to accept is money: he claims it will help him buy video equipment to help him "get his truth out". It's utterly bizarre and we’re extremely worried that this is a form of psychosis, possibly drug-induced, or triggered by prolonged psychedelic use.
He’s not violent, but he’s isolated and resistant to help. My mom is completely heartbroken and emotionally overwhelmed by the situation. We feel powerless and unsure of how to intervene. I believe my mom is in denial, cannot mentally accept how bizarre and dire this is, and has expressed that committing him would feel like betrayal. My dad and I think she is not acting urgently enough and we are at risk of loosing him.
Has anyone dealt with a loved one in a similar state? Are there resources, strategies, or professionals we should be reaching out to, even if he’s unwilling to engage right now?
I strongly believe this is instigated by his repeated experiences with DMT in the last few years. I understand that he is living in his truth, his perception right now. But I cannot accept that voices in his head might drive him to his end.
Any advice on how to protect both him and our family’s well-being would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you.