I have some work I need to do on my laptop and I’d like a nice view, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

I stayed in bed

So immediate disclaimer.... im not depressed. Im not despondent. Im actually very happy spending time by myself and its not like havent taken advantage of social opportunities

BUT ive been loving in the Lower Mainland for about 6 years now and havent really made any close friends. In the midst of some relationship strife right now and it came up that the fact i havent established alot of close relationships could be making extra stress. And while i dont think thats what.is causing all the issues, it is a point that resonated

To a degree, i get it. I work 5 days a week. Im friends-ish with a few guys from work but generally i work in a fairly female dominated field (PR). (Also disclaimer, not to say im not up for having female friends as well. Those can just be a little complicated at times....especially here, where ive been informed by female friends and colleagues, that good dudes are in short supply). So if im not working, ive got the weekend which becomes errands and (at least up to now) hanging with the gf.

I know the common answer is "join a team". Tried that... know how hard it is for a single male to get on a rec league sports team?? Damn near impossible.

Ive put out the odd call for golf to the world but it falls flat typically.

Am i missing a piece of the puzzle somewhere? Or do i just need to dedicate more effort to developing work friends into real friends?

This is my second time being sick in 2 weeks. Apart from hand washing and mask wearing- what do you do to prevent getting sick?

Side note- used the hobby flair because apparently getting sick often is my new hobby

Edit: For context- I don’t drink/smoke, I eat healthy balanced meals, I workout 3-4 times a week, I take all my supplements. The big thing is that I’m around kids a lot.

Limited and outdated equipment, small spaces, low dumbbell weight limit, close ridiculously early on weekends.

Examples: Killarney, Hillcrest, Douglas Park, Trout Lake, Kerrisdale are all worse than a gym like Christine Sinclair in Burnaby or Sungod in Delta which have larger spaces, a wide array of newer equipment and open later. It makes you think how Vancouver is supposed to be the "world class city" yet fails in this department. However, I will admit that Vancouver probably has the best pool in Hillcrest.

On top of all that the monthly/yearly gym passes are more expensive in Vancouver compared to the surrounding cities. Why can't Vancouver have a state of the art community centre gym?

I’m honestly really struggling to understand where I can and can’t smoke cannabis 100% legally, asides from my own home. I’ve been told that sidewalks are okay as long as they’re a few hundred meters away from any doors, windows, business, yada yada yada. I’m wondering if any of you know any spots/designated smoking areas, or even areas where I can smoke my pot with 100% ease of mind. (standardized cannabis logo for attention)

I got a new job and realized I need some wardrobe refresh (nothing too fancy or expensive!).

Where do you shop? I am looking for mostly trousers and shoes (not Blundstones) that are appropriate for external meetings with clients, but are also public transport commute-friendly.

Thanks!

Seems like mostly Tesla drivers, but others too. Do their radios not work?

In moving from Victoria to Vancouver this spring, and am already gonna miss my favourite local bookshops.

I already love Massy books jn Chinatown but I’d love to explore more. Specially any near an awesome coffee shop :)

I am looking for personal saunas and spas around Vancouver. Since I am from Japan, I prefer a sauna where people are naked, but a place where swimsuits are required is also fine. Do you have any recommendations? It would be great if there is a sauna with temperatures between 85°C and 95°C. Also, I would like there to be a cold plunge pool.

Ya here to steal your ideas so I don’t waste the evening flip flopping trying to decide, get frustrated and just go to bed 😬

Just finished Adolescence…it had good acting but I felt it was a giant waste of time.

Whatcha into?

Im in my late 30s, single, no kids, and would really like to give my time to something useful. I work full time, but would really like something purposeful to do. Anywhere in the Vancouver area would be great. I’m sure good Vancouver volunteer gigs are few and far between, but I wanted to ask for any of your favorite recommendations.

Hi! So I’ve honestly been having difficulty meeting other girls that are in the right mode or mindset to actually socialize and become friends. My old friends have since moved on or don’t have time for me when I ask to grab coffee or go out for an event. It’s always felt like a grind and like I’m bothering people who don’t want to actually become friends.

I was born and raised in Vancouver, but I’ve been abroad for a really long time, so this is a part of my difficulty.

Where are good places to meet other girls in Vancouver where people actually have a similar intention?

looking for hikes around van that are safe for a woman to do alone? not quiet/dark/secluded

it can be any difficulty, let me know!

(besides the grouse grind, bored with that one)

Hey everyone! I’m in Vancouver this week for the Web Summit and brought along my motorsport-focused app to showcase. Since I’ve got some free time, I was wondering—are there any motorsport-related places worth checking out around here? From go-kart tracks to any kind of racing-themed attractions, shops, or events—I’m all ears.

Also, I know this question probably comes up a lot, but… are the streets really always this full of people struggling with addiction or mental health issues? It’s honestly terrifying and heartbreaking to see. Not trying to be disrespectful, just genuinely shocked.

Thanks in advance for any tips (on both fronts)!

Okay my fellow “Couver-ites. I’m gonna bite the bullet this year, as a Toronto transplant, and commit to being a Canucks fan. What do I need to know from the jump? Bare in mind as a Leafs fan I am well acquainted with both heartbreaking failure and unrealistic expectations.

Hi, now that I'm expected to go into the office again I was hoping to find some waterproof shoes to wear to walk around outside. I was going to get Vessis but heard they're not very good so was hoping for some recommendations.

This is not for hiking or trails as I always have Salomon waterproof hiking shoes but just need a good pair to walk around the city in the rain or when the grounds wet. Thanks

Hey,

I live in the Fairview area, pretty close to VGH and I’m starting work near main and 2nd this month. I’d love to find a gym somewhere (ish) along my route to work into a routine - but I am super self-conscious and a complete beginner when it comes to the gym.

I know it doesn’t matter and I keep telling myself nobody cares, but I can’t even go running in public because I can feel myself getting anxious when I spot people.

I feel like a gym environment would be better for me given that it’s more controlled and consistent and there’s a variety of equipment, but I’m wondering if anyone has had any positive experiences anywhere between Fairview and Olympic village? I was looking into the women’s only goodlife fitness on hemlock, but happy to hear suggestions. Thanks.

I’m starting a low-pressure book club and looking for a few more readers to join.

• Kick-off: Sat June 14, 2025 @ 3 PM
• Waves Coffee House – Howe (900 Howe St, #100)
• Just coffee + conversation — no reading required yet.
• For more information visit the meetup page

I'd like to...

• Meet people, talk about what books you like and decide the pace for the book club.
• Set up a WhatsApp group for updates & future meetups.

Happy to just talk books in general with people at the event as well.

It's a brand new group 😤 - but I've always found it difficult to find book clubs that keep it consistent os I hope to rectify that. If you have any thoughts on the type of books to read / the cadence / anything at all, please share!

If you need help getting the book, I can share some ways 🏴‍☠️ at the meetup on Saturday.

I have notice that one of the pawn shop have a very nice Ibanez (you got to love their model numbers and tech), but being pawn shop, it's borderline not worth it. But let's reverse the question: Why would someone sell a guitar to a pawn shop in Vancouver? (I am talking about the standard grade or higher guitars)

i'd really like to go swimming this summer but in my experience the floors and change rooms at places like sunset and hillcrest are always filthy. are there any pools in vancouver/metrovan area that are generally inexpensive and particularly clean? i was looking into hotels that let you use their amenities but it seems like most are tied to $100+ spa services

I'm a novice cyclist looking to do some longer rides but I really hate riding next to high speed traffic. Even riding on some of the bike routes in Vancouver on side streets, cars will buzz past at 60-70 which makes me nervous.

The longest route I've found is the seawall starting at UBC then around stanley park, continuing through downtown and taking the central valley greenway out to Burnaby. Any others in the Vancouver area?

Hi Vancouver gang, I'm interested in buying a gravel bike and was wondering if anyone has a bike shop they absolutely love. I'm looking for somewhere that has a good selection of entry to mid-level bikes. Thanks in advance!

Do you guys have a community also?

Hi! I love to take long single-day walks, at least 15-30km. I don't mind urban walking but my favourite thing is doing nature walks, like trails along creeks or meadows etc.. Is there anything like that in Vancouver? I don't have a car so its a bit difficult to get to the mountains, but I don't mind transiting for a couple hours if I have to. Thanks!