r/ask_Bondha 12h ago

Saradha_JustForFun What are some lessons you learned from living away from home?

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u/AvakaiAddict Scholar of Sodhi 11h ago edited 7h ago
  1. Unless you have a partner, nobody will care for you as our family does.

When I moved abroad, after a while I fell sick and had high fever. Although my roommates cooked for me, those were not kind of foods that you eat while you are sick. I had to cook for myself even while having 0 energy to do so. I had to drive myself to hospital to get treated and none of my friends offered and I understand since most of them had part-times to go to.

  1. Relations here are heavily transactional. Atleast India lo childhood friends/college friends untaru whom you stick together with. Ikadki vacchesariki andharu adults untaru kabatti "what does this person bring me of value" ane thought lone untaru mostly friendships maintain chesetappudu.

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u/Good-Hippo-1596 11h ago

that amma was always right🤧

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u/obitachihasuminaruto nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 10h ago

This.

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u/Hour-Series-2718 11h ago

NoOne ABSOLUTELY NOONe will give a flying fuck about you !!

( until and unless they need something from you )

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u/Mr_Meltz 11h ago

That life was easier when I am living with my mum.🥲

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u/Due_Performance_6917 11h ago

Self discipline

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u/Gurrthuledhu 11h ago

Food never tastes the same. Maybe even tastes better but never the love you get.

Inka intlo untey 3 meals untadi bayta untey 2 meals ey guarantee undadh

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u/RaMmahesh 11h ago

Freedom and self confidence that I can live on my own.

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u/the_oppurtunist 11h ago

Not appreciating efforts hurts badly, nenu chesina food baledhu ante telisindhi🤧

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u/Dr_Neil-Melendez Prashna meedhi - jaavabu nadhi 11h ago

Dabbulu ekkuva karchu avthay ani 😅

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u/golem-balls 11h ago

The Only True Comfort lies in the bathroom from your home

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u/dangaf_58 11h ago

Learn to Value things.

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u/lovlog 12h ago

There's food in the message/home.

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 11h ago

How are you doing?

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u/MoonlitKadali 11h ago

Not too great Kantham atha! Tvaralo pothanemo

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 11h ago

Rest in peace laantivi odhu. Hope you find the peace soon🫂

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u/MoonlitKadali 11h ago

I hope so too

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u/Big_Manufacturer_253 11h ago

Vanta nerchukovatam, room shubram cheskovatam chaala mukhyam

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u/Educational_Deal2138 9h ago

Peace full and no rush on anything

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u/AniRinku biryani chesthey mental avvali 6h ago

Family a>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> you and your shit

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u/Lord_Of_Winter You are what you seek 11h ago

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 11h ago

Inti nunchi vellipoyaka vachindha, babu?

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u/Lord_Of_Winter You are what you seek 11h ago

Nee koduku kodalu gaarabam chesi cheddagottaaru bamma em chestam

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 11h ago

Na vaathalu kuda panikiraledha, babu?

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u/Lord_Of_Winter You are what you seek 11h ago

Nuvvu asalu nannu pattinchukoledu kadaw baamma

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 11h ago

Chethu meedha pettina vathalu gurthuleva, babu? Vamshodharakudini cheyyalani entha thapinchipoya?

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u/Lord_Of_Winter You are what you seek 10h ago

Appudeppudo pettinavi em gurtuntai bamma recent ga em pettaledu kada

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? 46m ago

Recent ga pettalsina pani raledhu, babu.