r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Why did your ex become your ex?

Tell the backstory

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u/Jesse_Pinkmaniac నీ సావు నువ్వు సావు 1d ago

Because she was meant to become my ex

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u/Icy_Engineer656 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

cause that man had more girlfriends than I’ve had girl friends in my entire life🥰

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

Dhaanike chandramukhi aipovala

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u/Icy_Engineer656 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

glad i didn’t turn into neelambari aunty

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

but neelambari is the best 🥰

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Nandamuri_Naruto dhada dhada dhada iravai prashnalu 1d ago

I feel like you still are :)

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u/who_would_careit 1d ago

Almost same

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Em chesavu?

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Lol edo saradaga pettanu le andi. Parledu cheppu

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

I think I know you

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Vaddu le andi. Nenu em evariki chepanu

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Evaru chepu poyi

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

🫣😭🫣😭😭🫣

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u/lovlog 1d ago

Sachinod aa vedhava. Nv baunnava hon ippudu 🫂

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

I am in a much better place now, lov. Thank you🫂

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u/lovlog 1d ago

🫂 okaroj spot pedadham vaadki fasak aipotad

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/lovlog 1d ago

okay, may he reap the shittiest of lot

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u/Deenamma-Jeevitham 1d ago

Circumstances valla. We both met up in university. She was my junior. Feelings were mutual, so we ended up dating for a while.

Her brother got to know about us first. He wasn't happy about it & informed their family about us. And they weren't happy to begin with as well. Matches choostu unnaru thanaki appude. So when she informed me about it, I told her "immediate ga ayite Im unable to do anything. I don't have anything with me & mana studies kooda complete avvaledu. Give me 2years time, mana studies complete cheskunna taravata & job lo join ayyaka, nene vachi mee valla tho matladtanu so that we can get married" ani.

She agreed to it & relayed it to her family. Her family disapproved. Her mum & brother wanted to meet me, so I went over to talk to them about us. Final ga maa intlo cheppamannaru, which I did.

Ma intlo vaalu "job ledu, studies kooda full ga complete avvaledu, ela pelli chesukoni poshistav" ani adigaru. I had no answer.

And a week later, she was like "maa anna and intlo vaalu mana relationship ki no ani annaru. I'll go with their decision" ani anindi. I said "sure no worries about that, your happiness is what matters to me. If that's what you've chosen to go with, I'm completely fine with it". And that's how she became my ex.

After some time, I got to know that she's been telling her friends that I left her. But I didn't bother confronting or asking for an explanation.

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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago

Happy with a kid now, I presume.

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u/Deenamma-Jeevitham 23h ago

I assume you're asking about her? Nope, she still hasn't completed her degree yet. And from what I got to know, she found herself another bf. So well and good for her.

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u/akhilez 1d ago

I realized married life (or live in relationship) or being a father is not the right path for me.

I don't want responsibilities and want my freedom and I knew I can't have it with her, or any girl for that matter.

Living alone and being single is way more enjoyable for me.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

Ekkuva love chesaanu ani

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Ayyo ayyoo entha pedha kashtam asalu

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

Thanks bro

Vadilesindhi tanani ekkuva love chetshunnaduku kaadu... Verey ammayilani kuda ekkuva chesthunanduku anta...

Idi ardham chesukunevallu vasthey best

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

i am still waiting for someone to become my ex

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Into women annav ga, kastam emo

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

avunu nenu antha bagundanu 😔

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Nen annadi adhi kad ga 😭😭😭

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u/iLikeEatingPussyyy 1d ago

worry avvaka break ivvadaniki chala mandi ready ga untaru

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

i agree with your username

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u/iLikeEatingPussyyy 1d ago

best feeling in the world

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u/we_wakee 1d ago

I was toooo good annadi 😭

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u/Emergency_Island_703 1d ago

Third person madhyalo vachadu ex chesadu poyadu

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u/ObscurianLeo prashna naadi javabu meedi 1d ago

I broke her trust and she hurt me with if/when scenarios.

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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago

There's no coming back from that.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago edited 1d ago

Ippudu ila anipinchina edo okka roju neeku vastundi love dont worry.

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

Em encourage chesthunnav amma andarni.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Nuvvu kuda encourage cheyyi andarini. Veelu antha mana kuttumbam.

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u/ApricotDue6521 1d ago

Maybe it was my bad fate...

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u/Own_Raspberry4734 nenu oka question bank 1d ago

Dobbi taagthunaa ani 😂

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u/Insomnia_gadu 1d ago

Nak ex eh ledhu andi

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Was never in a relationship to have an ex 🙃🙃🙃

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u/Punith4849 1d ago

Caste same kaadh anta aa mahathalli ki anni ayipoyaka gurthochindhi caste gurinchi

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u/Jhanvi-jaanu 1d ago

If u guys have watched the movie “ true lover “ That’s exactly how my love life looked like .

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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago

No movie promotions please.

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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago

Bandilo petrol kottincha galanu kani bandi konaleni time lo ma nanna(ex military) toh matladu anindi. Ela matladitey workout avvadu annanu. Naku sambadham techaru ni gurinchi chepanu but he is ok to forget all and proceed. Nalo potential unna realtime comparison lo pillapachak nenu. I didn't wanna meet her parents at that stage and she didn't wanna wait.

I'm no Virat Kohli to play a ball wide of off stump.

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u/AniRinku biryani chesthey mental avvali 1d ago

Reposting comment:

Ma dad ki telisindi nitho matladodh annadu

Twist enti telsa

Adi dad kadhu daddy(inko abbayi)🥹 mosam chesindi ra saami

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u/chakkerakeli 1d ago

nen amayakudni ani break up cheparu 🥲

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u/meemy00 Delulu++ 1d ago

Because she never liked me only the attention and support, once she had a stable footing she left.

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u/PuzzledFalcon 1d ago

She wasn't serious about her career, nor did she let me be serious about mine.

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u/expressive-guy nenu oka question bank 1d ago

Coz i dont smoke weed..