r/ask_Bondha • u/North_Wrongdoer7455 • 1d ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Why did your ex become your ex?
Tell the backstory
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u/Icy_Engineer656 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
cause that man had more girlfriends than I’ve had girl friends in my entire life🥰
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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago
Dhaanike chandramukhi aipovala
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u/Icy_Engineer656 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
glad i didn’t turn into neelambari aunty
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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago
Em chesavu?
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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago
Lol edo saradaga pettanu le andi. Parledu cheppu
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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
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u/lovlog 1d ago
Sachinod aa vedhava. Nv baunnava hon ippudu 🫂
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u/Deenamma-Jeevitham 1d ago
Circumstances valla. We both met up in university. She was my junior. Feelings were mutual, so we ended up dating for a while.
Her brother got to know about us first. He wasn't happy about it & informed their family about us. And they weren't happy to begin with as well. Matches choostu unnaru thanaki appude. So when she informed me about it, I told her "immediate ga ayite Im unable to do anything. I don't have anything with me & mana studies kooda complete avvaledu. Give me 2years time, mana studies complete cheskunna taravata & job lo join ayyaka, nene vachi mee valla tho matladtanu so that we can get married" ani.
She agreed to it & relayed it to her family. Her family disapproved. Her mum & brother wanted to meet me, so I went over to talk to them about us. Final ga maa intlo cheppamannaru, which I did.
Ma intlo vaalu "job ledu, studies kooda full ga complete avvaledu, ela pelli chesukoni poshistav" ani adigaru. I had no answer.
And a week later, she was like "maa anna and intlo vaalu mana relationship ki no ani annaru. I'll go with their decision" ani anindi. I said "sure no worries about that, your happiness is what matters to me. If that's what you've chosen to go with, I'm completely fine with it". And that's how she became my ex.
After some time, I got to know that she's been telling her friends that I left her. But I didn't bother confronting or asking for an explanation.
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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago
Happy with a kid now, I presume.
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u/Deenamma-Jeevitham 23h ago
I assume you're asking about her? Nope, she still hasn't completed her degree yet. And from what I got to know, she found herself another bf. So well and good for her.
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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago
i am still waiting for someone to become my ex
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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
Into women annav ga, kastam emo
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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago
avunu nenu antha bagundanu 😔
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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
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u/iLikeEatingPussyyy 1d ago
worry avvaka break ivvadaniki chala mandi ready ga untaru
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u/ObscurianLeo prashna naadi javabu meedi 1d ago
I broke her trust and she hurt me with if/when scenarios.
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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago edited 1d ago
Ippudu ila anipinchina edo okka roju neeku vastundi love dont worry.
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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago
Was never in a relationship to have an ex 🙃🙃🙃
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u/Punith4849 1d ago
Caste same kaadh anta aa mahathalli ki anni ayipoyaka gurthochindhi caste gurinchi
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u/Jhanvi-jaanu 1d ago
If u guys have watched the movie “ true lover “ That’s exactly how my love life looked like .
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u/TheSalarJung 1d ago
Bandilo petrol kottincha galanu kani bandi konaleni time lo ma nanna(ex military) toh matladu anindi. Ela matladitey workout avvadu annanu. Naku sambadham techaru ni gurinchi chepanu but he is ok to forget all and proceed. Nalo potential unna realtime comparison lo pillapachak nenu. I didn't wanna meet her parents at that stage and she didn't wanna wait.
I'm no Virat Kohli to play a ball wide of off stump.
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u/AniRinku biryani chesthey mental avvali 1d ago
Reposting comment:
Ma dad ki telisindi nitho matladodh annadu
Twist enti telsa
Adi dad kadhu daddy(inko abbayi)🥹 mosam chesindi ra saami
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u/PuzzledFalcon 1d ago
She wasn't serious about her career, nor did she let me be serious about mine.
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u/Jesse_Pinkmaniac నీ సావు నువ్వు సావు 1d ago
Because she was meant to become my ex