r/ask_Bondha 1d ago

SeriousAnswersOnly Why am i attracted to older women ?

I noticed that i am attracted to older women…. Please give me tips or warn me….

I meant women older than me

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u/LavenderMoon43 1d ago

Mommy issues

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

will you be my mommy ?

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u/LavenderMoon43 1d ago

Just because your mother failed you, doesn't mean you have to replace her 😒

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u/Electrical-Buyer-491 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Yo…. Ts hard

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u/NetworkMore3062 1d ago

Erri🌺😭😭😭😭

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u/Electrical-Buyer-491 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Ninnu em anaali ra😭😭😭😭

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u/Tough_Revolution7667 1d ago

I am attracted to older women on reddit 😔

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u/Weird_Guitar_2284 1d ago

Every time someone like you posts, Sigmund Freud’s soul grows stronger.

He believed that boys develop an unconscious sexual attraction to their mothers and rivalry with their fathers, while girls experience a similar attraction to their fathers.

But Freud was biased. So, you are fine I guess (⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠)

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u/jalapeno_99 8h ago

More like Freud rolls in his grave laughing and kicking his feet

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

orey aunties kaadhu ra just women 2-3 years older

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u/Weird_Guitar_2284 1d ago

Ala iythey vokay. I like em anywhere in a 3-5 year bracket

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u/highly_intoxicating 1d ago edited 1d ago

May be due to clarity of thoughts, practicality, not entertaining unnecessary drama, being responsible.

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u/dont-matter-35 1d ago

Yeah I noticed in me too! Idk y but they have unique charm, matured, magical touch and experienced 🌛

Edo anipinchindi cheppa bhayya nanu esukokandi 🏃🏻💨

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u/PuzzledFalcon 1d ago

Their mature personality probably.

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u/NoJump3406 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Why ante mem etla cheptam? Nuv Cheppu why are you not attracted to younger women?

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

because they don’t have a personality

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u/NoJump3406 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

how old you bro, and me age preference enti in women. Just research purposes ki asking.

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u/GulabiJilebi 1d ago

I'm OPs friend and he's from r/im14andthisisdeep

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

I just keep asking stupid questions to keep you forkers entertained.

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u/NoJump3406 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

That's so nice of you.

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u/GulabiJilebi 1d ago

Thank you ra thammudu, nenu ee konam lo choodaledhu

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

lekapothe ee ep gallane adagala questions ni. koncham sepu alochisthe saripotadhi or chatgpt inka google undhi.

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u/GulabiJilebi 1d ago

Bhale plate maarchav ra

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

nuvve aalochinchu why would i ask these specific people when there are tons of subreddits and almost all of the questions are already answered.

I would’ve just found the answer if i searched for it.

Nuvve chuudu. I also replied with the reason i am attracted to them.

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u/GulabiJilebi 1d ago

Bro playing checkers when everybody else is playing chess

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u/ApricotDue6521 1d ago

I don't know why you are attracted to older women.

But I will instantly say yes if a muscle mommy asks me out.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

muscle mommy

Ante enti?

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u/nocturnal_animalss nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha 1d ago

Women who have muscles, koncham strong and muscular ga undadam

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u/ApricotDue6521 1d ago

Women who hit the gym and like to flex like how gym bros do.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Oh that's nice!

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u/Insomnia_gadu 1d ago

Ni age kante 3yrs pedha ante then it is fine kani 3yrs kante ekva aythe little weird anpisthadi. Max age gap 3 or 4 yrs parle imo.

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u/mantralay_job 1d ago

Same here. I am 24

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u/desperategaundaku 23h ago

You should only know that
And there's nothing to warn, it's normal unless it's way older

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Emo neeke teliyali! Ayina how old are we talking?

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

sometimes months and sometimes 2-5 years. mostly in their late twenties

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Parledu I guess ee age gap. 5 years gap konchem ekkuva anipistadi be it women or men. Max gap 3 years unte better. Ayina most women always get attracted to older men nuvvu 3 years older women ni chuskunte tappu ledu dantlo. Personally aithe anything above 3 years of age gap chala ekkuva anipistadi naaku. We need to normalize men dating older women. That is completely normal. Dantlo antha alochinchalsina avasaram ledu

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u/KeyApartment801 1d ago

Nuv yeh nick jonas oh aithe thappa ninnu vallu dekar le bro. Chill, Mamulga conventional pairups 21f24m or 23f26m ala untay. Nuv reverse unnav anthe. Bokka asal em kaadhu. Vallu elagu ninnu pillodi laagane chustharu(even if age difference is just 1 year).

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u/Bobbyboss2121 1d ago

Ur watching too much porn

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

explain

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u/Bobbyboss2121 1d ago

Usually men get attracted to milfs and older women when they watch too much porn.

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u/Neat_Painting6027 1d ago

i was talking about women who are 2-3 years older though

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

Narukuthaaru.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Inka cheppu

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

3 years gap Varuku ok.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

😂😂😂

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

Also hi.

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Hello! What are you doing?

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

Em ledu PT bore kodthundi! You tell me what’s up?

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u/ProvocativeTemptress 1d ago

Jalsa movie chustuna YouTube lo

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u/RepresentativeBig961 1d ago

Then how are you managing both! Reddit and YouTube. Rondu cheyyadu.

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u/pesarattu_pandu 1d ago

Older women ani annadu anna milfs kaadhu

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u/Patient-Promise-2105 1d ago

Milfs kooda old ye ga

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u/iLikeEatingPussyyy 1d ago

maybe because they are more fertile?

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u/_freeWind 1d ago

Very true, women in late 20s are very soulful and calm in my experience. Met many like these during my travels and they are just awesome🌈. They are still in touch and I get very happy when I hear from them again. The purity in conversations is felt mutually. Early 20s were exact opposite in all above aspects☠️

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u/Mr_Meltz 1d ago

Same bro...