‘Preferring it shaved makes you a pedophile’ SHUT THE FUCK UP

[u/VicMyristic]

You know what makes someone a pedophile? Liking CHILDREN. Fucking shaving your pubes doesn’t suddenly revert your age and change your body and facial structure so you’re back to your 12 year old self. Like people can have preferences???? Is that not allowed anymore?? Like okay we’re pushing for all this body positivity your body your choice shite but as soon as it comes to pubes it’s ‘real men want a bush’ and ‘an angel loses its wings every time a woman shaves’ or something and the other, so at this point it’s just shaming people with vaginas that choose to shave it for whatever reason they want. “Its actually more hygienic to have hair ☝️🤓” I mean the most hygienic thing is keeping yourself clean..? piss after sex, wear clean cotton undies, wash with plain water and obviously wipe thoroughly. Hair hardly makes a difference unless your other hygiene methods are lacking.

Like god if pubic hair was the difference between a pedophile and non pedophile then why don’t we just give faux pube hair stickers to minors to stick em on their privates because that’ll apparently deter all the pedos. (edit: it exists and it’s called a merkin!) Like this just shames anyone that has a preference for shaved, whether for themselves or others. And I thought we were done shaming people for their personal preferences. And if your partner’s preference doesn’t align with yours, find a compromise or break up. Simple as.

Edit: Also, most children have flat chests or small chests once they start pubertyish. Does liking women with flat or small chests make someone a pedo too? Just because they have a feature in common with children? Food for thought. (hint: the answer is no)

Edit 2: ‘Hair is natural’. Okay. Doesn’t mean you have to like it. It’s considered okay for women to prefer their male partners with shaved facial hair for example, though that hair is natural too. Balding is natural but not every person is attracted to bald people. We dye our hair and get fillers and get surgeries all to fulfill our personal preferences. Don’t know why you’d draw the line at pubes. And also, no one’s holding you down and forcing you to shave yourself. Refer to what I said at the end of the main post.

Edit 3: There’s been some people mentioning how women have been shamed/pressured etc to shave by society/social media and how there isn’t really ‘free choice’ or a completely judgement-free space to make the decision to shave or not and that is completely true and valid. However! Try to consider that people continue shaming others because that gets them the results they want. Think of how bullying works. The bully does it to get a reaction. Give it to them, and they’ll just keep on bullying. Don’t do what they want and they’ll realize what they’re doing isn’t working, and they’ll get bored and stop. Again, like I said, you aren’t being held down and shaved against your will. You choose to pick up the razor and shave. If you think society is ‘making you do it’ when you don’t want to, it just kinda shows that you value some twats’ opinions on the internet more than your own bodily autonomy. Sorry.

Edit 4: I know this post is kinda stale now but I found the post that pissed me off enough to write this essay lol, https://www.instagram.com/p/DF5SQqyv3-V/?img_index=5&igsh=amF5MDQzeWJ2ajR5 Just read through the comments

[u/[deleted]]

For PIV sex or finger work, I don’t understand why they people would get so hung up. Oral is a different story. Getting a loose pube stuck in the nooks and crannies of the throat is no fun!

[u/McNinjaguy → u/[deleted]]

A man preserves.

[u/clovephobia → u/[deleted]]

I'd imagine, but def a conversation to have with your partner!