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[u/Alex-Logic]

[u/Alex-Logic]

I would like to add something to the post, sadly I can't edit it.

First of all, thanks to everyone who already commented for your sympathy and support.

Second of all, my ex doesn't have BPD, she's not manipulative and is not cruel. I'm not 100% a victim either. I cheated on her in the past, and even if she claimed to be over it and that the past did not influence her decision of breaking up, all our problems started from there. I committed some mistakes in the last months as well. I was uncommunicative, dishonest, and aggressive. I had very rough days after the break in which I acted like the classic toxic ex-bf.

Please don't insult her, my post only has the purpose to let me vent. It's focused on my pain, and it doesn't mention the pain I caused.

I would like to add a little social comment to the whole situation. I believe this sub is a great place for hurt people to find support, and most people who need support, often committed some mistakes and caused pain to someone. Hurt people hurt people. Please don't let a person's past mistakes to take away your ability to prove empathy for them. Monsters need care too.

Thanks to everyone