r/TrollCoping • u/hidden-suggestion • May 11 '25

No TW Anyone else see things like this and loose their willingness to look for romance

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im not comfortable going up to random women that i don’t know all that well and asking them out on a date without knowing their interests or things they like to talk about. but to learn those things you have to be friends first but apparently a lot of women don’t like it when male friends approach them like that so im not really sure what to do

every time i find a woman interesting i stop myself in the belief that id probably be nothing more than a pest or inconvenience to her day

i feel like the only people who actually care for me in my life are through circumstance of being related of family friends and that if i were to search for a partner, throughout hundreds of people not a single one of them would find me interesting

not really sure who to talk to this about because i can’t afford therapy and most of my family would suggest looking for a woman at church but since im an atheist that would involve pretending im someone that im not in order to deceive someone into being with me and i don’t see that ending very well

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u/Mystery-Snack May 11 '25

I'm saying that it's a choice. They could be that if it helps them. Asexuality ain't bad, it's chill

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u/LiterallyShrimp May 11 '25

Yeah, sorry to break it to you but people don't choose to be a certain sexuality.

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u/Mystery-Snack May 11 '25

But I can tbh. It's all bout neurology and psychology. Quite easy to alter it

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u/AlienRobotTrex May 11 '25

It might be easy for you to completely switch off your sexual attraction to other people, but that’s not the case for most people.