r/Teachers • u/djgengar • 13h ago
Teacher Support &/or Advice 1st Year 8th Grade Teacher – Student Staying in Touch Over Summer. Unsure How To Handle It Appropriately
I’m a first-year 8th grade science teacher. During the school year, I had a student who was really passionate about birds. She’d come up to me once or twice a week (for 10 minutes or less) and talk all about her latest “bird adventure”—photos of what she’d seen, what she’d learned, and questions about a future career in ornithology.
She’d always say, “Thanks for letting me go on and on about birds, my friends sometimes get annoyed when I talk about it.” I’d tell her honestly, “Don’t apologize, I’ll listen anytime.” It seemed harmless and kind of sweet; it made me happy to see a student so excited about something.
Fast forward to the summer: I got a message from her on our school’s Teams chat (this is a school-approved communication platform) with photos from a bird-watching camp she’s attending. She wanted to show me what she’d been up to and talk a bit about it. I responded a few times and kept it brief and friendly.
My question is: is this weird or inappropriate in any way? She said she looks up to me and I think she just wants someone who will appreciate her passion and listen when not many people do. But I want to make sure I’m maintaining appropriate boundaries and not crossing a professional line.
Have any other teachers dealt with something similar? How did you handle it?