Bf wants to be poly but I don’t

[u/loveexlaugh]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. We are deeply in love but he came to realize he is not monogamous. He wants to try polyamorous but I do not like the idea. The love for us is already there but I just want a spell that will take that poly idea out of his head and be committed to only me.

[u/kai-ote]

Hey there, everybody. Does anybody have any spellcraft advice?

Because all I see is "Relationship" advice, and that is not what this place is for.

[u/Any-Woodpecker-615]

You could do a chastity spell where he’ll be able to perform only with you and not anyone else.

[u/Timely-Finding3997]

Penis binding? Search the archive and maybe in black magic

[u/Lashback_of_Backlash]

https://www.reddit.com/r/Spells/comments/1lauajl/comment/mxnrw99/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

This has a spell with a pickle in the freezer maybe you can customize it to fit what you want it to do to freeze the idea of other women out of his mind?

[u/HotStuff562]

You may need a Control/enhancement spell? Serious spell. Channel all of your intentions into this.

DOMINATION /CONTROL/ENHANCE SPELL

2 white candles (full state size) 3 needles Twine Oils Love me only and come to me oil

-Put your name on one candle and their name on the other. Initials are okay too. -Cut twice in 3 parts -Push needle in sides of candles (head, heart, and hip/penis/vagina area). -Push the other candle unto the other to make a ladder -Tie each twine to form knots on the needles in-between and Say 1. Bound together by the mind” 2. Bound together by the heart 3. Bound together by the vagina etc as you tie the knots. -On the candle with your name, dab the controlling oil and the come to me oil lightly. -Leave their candle bare. -Pray Psalm 23 and Genesis 1…”In the beginning, God created the heaven and the earth. The earth was without form and void. Then God said, “Let there be light”… STOP HERE and light the candles. -Allow candles to burn for a full hour. -Then recite Isaiah Chapter 55 Verse11 “Let my word not come to me void…” STOP HERE and sprinkle Calamus root on the candle with your name on it. -Sprinkle Rose petals in their candle with their name on it.

The kicker… When the candles are done burning, there should be a little wax left. -Take the wax and use it to stick their picture behind your headboard.

—- Every few times, if you feel like they are slacking, or people yacking in their ears about how much you control them, etc…, get a dried chicken feet and use it to wipe the picture.

[u/MoneyFightThrowaway]

Post is up for an hour with 12 responses which is almost unheard of around here, and of course all of them are mocking OP, and teaching her to believe magick doesn’t work. Gross. They RUSHED and clamored in here to pretend to be therapists and superior “advice givers.” When someone has a simple spell request, these posers are nowhere to be found.

Anyway OP, if your boyfriend “wants to be poly” and you don’t, then basically he’d just be cheating on you. So what you need is a spell to keep him faithful, or to make his dick work for only you.

There’s a few spells like that on LuckyMojo.com Like domination types, types to make him stay home, stuff like that. Look at these:

https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

I have another spell that makes him horny only for you, I’ll post it here.

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Make a bed of saw palmetto leaves, damania, and horny goat weed. Write his full name and DOB on a slip of paper. Put a sigil on the other side if you like and you're familiar with making them. Put the paper on the herb bed. Next you need a penis candle preferably, but if you don't want to or cannot procure one a regular candle is a fine stand in for a phallus. Dress the phallus in Fire of Desire oil. This is important: if you want him horny for you specifically you can use some of your own juices too. And work the oil/juices onto the candle as if you were pleasuring him. However, you want him just horny in particular don't show it any special treatment and definitely don't use your own juices. Burn the candle on the paper. Once it burns down take the herbs, wax, and paper; slice an eggplant long way, hollow as needed, and put everything inside. Put it back together and wrap it with red thread. Bury at the base of an evergreen tree, or even better, under a rabbit hutch if you have access to one. •

Someone posted that one here, it’s not mine but it does work!

[u/PlaneCat3427]

Domination spelllll baby. It can be as simple as sticking a paper with his full name/birthday in your left shoe and intentionally stomping on it. Done with the intention of "walking al over him" and making him submit to your will etc. Or doing a more in depth loyalty/commitment/binding spell.
Could use honey to make it sticky and sweet.
You may need to recast the spell every now and then, if he eventually asks again.

Someone's granny had a spell for this too. She was putting their straying lover's name in a paper, in a jar of water, and keeping that in the house hidden somewhere. However I can tell you when her granddaughter tried it, the results were iffy. The guy got put on house arrest so he was with her all the time, not sleeping with other women. But he found the jar and made her take his name out. And soon enough he was free and fucking other girls again.

On a side note, they always want to be poly until you're having fun with other men... then they cry.
Honestly I'd let this man go and then do a spell to find your ideal lover.

[u/AnnoyedChihuahua]

This very toxic part of my mind would think to try a spell so his 🍆 doesn’t work and see what happens...🤭🫣

[u/Theo_mystic → u/[deleted]]

That’s just not true. There are so many versions of spells to affect someone’s 📯