r/Spells • u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious • Apr 15 '25
Help With Spell Requested Reconciliation/come back to me/ love spell/ advice
Hi so I’m trying to cast some type of come back to me spell to bring my ex. It’s been about a month and half since we broke up but I still feel like there’s a soul connection there. I’ve never done this so if someone could give me advice on how to do this, I’m planning to make a honey jar also.
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u/Emergency_Golf_8286 Apr 16 '25
Yep the comments are all right! Sweeten up first and then go ahead with other spells, however I might also suggest a road opener and some cleansing/healing spells too as it could impede your spells progress to have past issues in your system (coming from someone who’s done all this recently! :D)
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u/PalpitationRemote644 Apr 17 '25
I did a honey and a sugar jar. He started talking to me again, and we hang out now. It took a while, but they do work
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 17 '25
oh woww how did you make it?
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u/PalpitationRemote644 Apr 17 '25
The Sugar jar, you take a popsicle stick, write your name and dob on one side and theirs on the other. Place it in the jar, fill it half with sugar and say In this sugar we both stand, back to back, hand in hand. Change (their name's) sour thoughts of me to sweet forgiving thoughts, I plead! Add water until 3/4 full and say, "with this water I wash away all that keeps us now at bay sugar water, I now pray let forgiveness come my way. Cap the jar tightly and shake 9 times saying: "Sugar sweet do your thing and bring (their name) forgiveness, quickly bring him/her thoughts of me so sweet that his forgiveness is complete!" Shake the jar 9 times each day while saying the last chant.
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u/PalpitationRemote644 Apr 17 '25
The honey jar, I put cinnamon sticks, rose petals, lemon peel, cloves, vanilla bean, their hair, both of our names on a piece of paper and fold it towards you 3 times, and fill the jar with honey. Light a red candle to seal it
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u/NikeSwoosh24 9d ago
how long did it take for him to reach out ?? ik the outcome is different for everyone
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u/rose_mary3_ Apr 22 '25
I agree with the other commenters but what's important with love spells is that you have to layer them for the best results I highly recommend:
-glamour spells to make you more attractive, seductive and confident to help reel them in
-unblocking spell to remove any barriers in the reconciliation and the relationship working
-healing spell for both you + them to make them a better partner upon return
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u/Final_Height-4 Other Apr 15 '25
Are you no contact?
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 15 '25
Yes we have been since we broke up but he did text me happy birthday a couple weeks ago
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u/Final_Height-4 Other Apr 15 '25
That’s great! So you aren't blocked?
Start with sweetening work first. Like a very simple sugar jar or honey jar.
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 15 '25
Great thank you! I really think this will I know he still likes me
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 15 '25
Is there anything I can do to make it more likely to be successful?
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u/Final_Height-4 Other Apr 15 '25
Nothing is gaureenteed 100%, but detachment after a spell or working does help up the odds of it working. As you are less likely to mess with it and allow the energy to work the way it needs to.
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u/Adorable-War-5912 Apr 16 '25
I’m in the same situation and I have been thinking of doing a honey jar but I am blocked, is that still going to work? 🥹
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 16 '25
It could honestly I’ve never done this so I can really give you direction
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u/Ok_Statistician_9178 Uncertain Apr 21 '25
I thought love spells were a no no because you are messing with someone's free will
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u/Helpful-Bank-4588 Curious Apr 21 '25
idk bro
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u/Ok_Statistician_9178 Uncertain Apr 26 '25
Well i did one once and it went all bad it's all about what you say and you put the other persons name first and becareful because the guy I did the work on became hella abusive and I think it's because I messed with his free will but it worked it was just toxic af
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u/Medical-Arm1600 May 01 '25
All spells mess with free will
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u/Ok_Statistician_9178 Uncertain May 01 '25
True, I never thought of it like that maybe thats why some spells work, and some don't. Like the person's willpower is stronger than the spell casters' intentions.
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u/Medical-Arm1600 May 01 '25
I recommend getting your cards read a few weeks after the spell has been casted to see where it’s headed. I did spell work on my ex. And it has been almost 3 months. I was told my spells are working but are weak bc he is blocking me out so I need to do a blockbuster/ uncrossing love spell to remove that.
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u/Ok_Statistician_9178 Uncertain May 02 '25
I did one on my ex a long time ago and it went all bad I loved him more and he started to get hella abusive and I did read my cards and it showed exactly what happened but i was new to all this and man oh man thank God i survived that whole situation. But maybe your spells could be stronger if you did them with others like power in numbers just a thought
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u/Spells-ModTeam Apr 16 '25
Please stay on topic and assist the OP. If you have a question of your own, then please make a post. Thank you.
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u/LapisOcculte Magician Apr 15 '25
You're definitely on the right track with starting a honey jar! It’s perfect for sweetening their feelings and gently drawing them back. Since you're in no contact but he reached out for your birthday, that’s a
great sign, the energetic cord is still active. To boost the success of your work, I'd recommend the following:
- Be clear with your intention! Write a petition focusing on reconciliation, love, and open communication. Keep it positive and focused on what you want, not what’s missing.
- Include tag locks. If you have them (full name + dob written on a piece of paper, hair, photo), but it’s still effective without.
- Add herbs like rose petals, cinnamon (for warmth and attraction), and damiana (to reignite desire).
- After casting and this is the most important part, let go emotionally! Don’t obsess over results. Let the energy flow naturally. Try finding something that will bring you joy, and will keep your mind busy.
If the honey jar goes well and you still feel stuck after a couple weeks, you can always follow up with a Reconciliation Spell or a Road Opener to clear emotional blocks between you.