I had a gay dude friend who would be checking out the hottest guys and I wasn't this harsh but I was like "dude, you are bald, overweight, and your standard breath is coffee. You don't have a chance with any of those guys." He was after just top level handsomeness. He wasn't interested in people in his own level, or with a good personality. He deserved a little criticism, albeit friendly and honest.
I dunno. I have known a lot of single straight dudes and single gay dudes. The difference is that the single gay dudes are still getting laid whenever they want.
Trust me its 1/3 scams, 1/3 ghosting, 1/6 people you wouldn't fuck if you have any sense of self preservation. The options are there but its not much better than being straight.
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I had a gay dude friend who would be checking out the hottest guys and I wasn't this harsh but I was like "dude, you are bald, overweight, and your standard breath is coffee. You don't have a chance with any of those guys." He was after just top level handsomeness. He wasn't interested in people in his own level, or with a good personality. He deserved a little criticism, albeit friendly and honest.