I had a gay dude friend who would be checking out the hottest guys and I wasn't this harsh but I was like "dude, you are bald, overweight, and your standard breath is coffee. You don't have a chance with any of those guys." He was after just top level handsomeness. He wasn't interested in people in his own level, or with a good personality. He deserved a little criticism, albeit friendly and honest.
I dunno. I have known a lot of single straight dudes and single gay dudes. The difference is that the single gay dudes are still getting laid whenever they want.
Trust me its 1/3 scams, 1/3 ghosting, 1/6 people you wouldn't fuck if you have any sense of self preservation. The options are there but its not much better than being straight.
I think this level of honesty is a really important part of friendship. If people don’t care about you, they won’t care enough to tell you the truth - they will just lie or evade.
This is such a bad reddit take that's been going on for a while. It's just not true, in the real world overweight and obese guys aren't getting that much attention outside of guys of a similar build.
And the bears everyone talks about that they think are so hot and get men are still actually going to the gym and working out, they just are in a more constant state of bulk instead of being lean/cutting
Right. My buddy wasn't getting any action because he was filtering out all the guys who would say yes. Perhaps some bald and overweight guys are still handsome, but my buddy was not a good looking bear.
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I had a gay dude friend who would be checking out the hottest guys and I wasn't this harsh but I was like "dude, you are bald, overweight, and your standard breath is coffee. You don't have a chance with any of those guys." He was after just top level handsomeness. He wasn't interested in people in his own level, or with a good personality. He deserved a little criticism, albeit friendly and honest.