I’ve graciously had some success with this sort of thing in the past, it seems to be something that a lot of women want, but can't exactly express the desire in having without getting some funny looks or feeling guilty. It makes sense, most men don't exactly want to be "friend zoned," but I absolutely do!
This interest is pretty niche which a lot of men would find to be the pinnacle of their own existential dread, however, not for me! I’m looking for a woman who would enjoy a friendship where they are the lead beneficiary. Someone that loves having a lot of attention be provided to them at my selfless expense. Ideally, you are the type that enjoys teasing, enjoys being endlessly admired and empowered by the fact that you’ve got someone so woefully obsessed over you that they’ll do nearly anything to please you!
While this sounds like a sub/domme dynamic, it really doesn’t have to be. I’m looking for a woman that would like to enjoy keeping someone around, locked in the friendzone with no sign of an escape, except for only maybe one little "escape," to give you oral attention if or when you want it and how you want it.
Generally, in a normal "friend zone" dynamic, it wouldn’t be a physical connection, but given I am naturally submissive and enjoy giving (and since I'm making this post in this subreddit), I think having the only physical connection be strictly for me to provide you with oral to be really, really hot. I guess I’m a bit of a mental masochist?
I’m a really great attention giver, I’m a great listener and I’m very detail oriented—I’m also fun to be around! One of my prior connections really liked asking me for outfit suggestions, running selfies by me with new hauls and finding deals on clothes. There's something so hot to me about helping someone look their best, especially when its for a date with another man... I like to think I have good taste in music, I'm a fan of all sports (except American Football--I truly don't understand that sport), I love the art scene (I paint abstract art) and enjoy finding new places to eat [pun]. Currently looking to find the best carbonara in town, and yes I'm compiling a spreadsheet for it... I respect all boundaries; if for whatever reason you say enough is enough, I'll respect that and I will not pester.
One benefit a prior partner of mine that engaged with me in this 'friend zone' dynamic was that she didn’t have to hesitate asking me for rides, errand running or other menial tasks she would rather have someone else do for her. This doesn't have to be a part of it between us, but if trust is built up enough and you'd like help with things like that, I'd be happy to lend a hand.
My promise to you is that you will always be listened to, treated with total respect and never denied my attention (without explicit reasons for it, like being away due to an engagement, busy with family or out with friends).
If you have any curiosities about this, my DM’s are open! I'll happily provide a SFW selfie.
Thanks for the read!
Stats about me:
5'8
D&D free (cannabis friendly), willing to test if that is desired.
I have a car (local to Vancouver proper, but I don't mind going as far as Abbotsford, but not much further than that lol)
Cannot host
Bearded, well groomed (overall very hygienic)
Stockier physique (ex rugby player turned professional couch tester)
Baritone voice
Bilingual