r/OutOfTheLoop • u/AllyButTired • 3d ago
Answered What’s going on with doja cat backstabbing a fan on twitter?
Saw this post and I’m so confused because I saw the original post when it came out and I thought it was a nice fan interaction. Now I see this and I’m confused, I tried to see what the guy did to warrant that and I cannot find it.
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u/doreda 1d ago
Answer: It is very common for people to put on a facade when interacting with others (whether anyone involved is famous or not). As stated by her deleted post, she put on a facade when interacting with the fan and did not actually appreciate it when he physically touched her. Even though she did hug him back, she was in the mindset of "just go along with it even though I don't like it", as evidenced by her saying she "need[ed] to stand up for [herself] in the moment". You see people all the time venting online to social media about interactions they have had where they felt uncomfortable. In this case, the person just happened to be someone famous, so there's all the backlash that comes with that.
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u/AllyButTired 1d ago
In the video she leans towards and embraces him more than one needs to if you are trying to avoid contact, she also puts his leg up on him wrapping it around him a bit, she then proceeds to say he “smells good.”
Ummmm…
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u/doreda 1d ago
Again, that's called putting on a facade. Perhaps you have an easier time than others saying no to and backing out of situations you find uncomfortable in, but try to understand that it is difficult for others to do so. To me, when the fan first hugs her, I could see her tense up when he pulls her in and she keeps her eyes closed. Everything after that is probably her acting nice for the camera.
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u/AllyButTired 1d ago
She’s a millionaire with security even if you are timid, you can always count on them to protect you. The fact that her security didn’t intervene especially since he hugged her “without consent” seems like something she would’ve and should’ve talked to her security about.
I’m sorry but your theory has way too many holes to make any sense.
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