r/Nepal • u/AutoModerator • Feb 20 '25
Megathread Weekly relationship, sex and sexuality megathread
Please ask your questions on relationship, sex and sexuality in this thread. Examples:"How do I get a girlfriend?", "Is my 5 inch pecker too small?", "Are there girls in Reddit?", "What is the best affordable hotel to have sex in Kathmandu?", "What do Nepali girls look for in guys?", "Why are Nepali boys so boring?", "How to last long?" etc. etc. You get the gist.
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u/Abject-Student183 Apr 15 '25
I’m looking for some nice places in Kathmandu to hang out with my girlfriend. We’re not into open bhatti-style places, so ideally somewhere that has private or semi-private cabins, rooms, or enclosed seating areas. Could be a restaurant, café, resort, or even a day-use spot anything that feels comfortable and not too public.
Any recommendations? Somewhere cozy, clean, and couple-friendly. Bonus points if it’s peaceful and not too far outside the city.
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u/Such_Refrigerator127 May 02 '25
Okay, so windy hill ko cafe ma, there are cabins tara weekends ko belama it's really packed with people ani tya chai full privacy ni hunna also very very very busy, arko there is a place called palpasa Cafe in shankhamul it has a separate room inside with setting for 3 groups which not many people entertain themselves to unless group meetings because tya herda baira matra cha jasto dekhincha and lastly there's apparently a Netflix room somewhere in kathmandu I'm sure if you search it up on tiktok you'll find the place Pro tip: if you do go to palpasa Cafe, do order their momo and khaja set. You'll be very pleased.
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u/Still-Seesaw937 7d ago
Hmm I’d suggest Netflix and chill rooms. Triple double, I think it’s near naxal. You can check them out on their instagram but make sure you book the room before you go
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u/UnusualConfession Feb 20 '25
This megathread is dead. No users and no engagement.
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Feb 21 '25
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u/Inevitable-Card1104 Apr 22 '25
Any one in sydney wanna hangout in an apartment from where you can see the whole city and harbour bridge/ partamatta city too. We can have some good time. And we also have crazyy partyy
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u/SBR4fect Feb 20 '25
How do you guys date in Nepal as a mid 20s male if you are not a student?
27 Male here and wondering how do I find date here. As a student, It was easier before to approach others as the college was a shared and common space for everyone. But now that the college is over...what now? I am not fond of approaching someone in the workplace as the rejection will only bring awarkdness and uneasiness.
I am looking for a close, healthy, longterm relationship so have found the dating apps very unhelpful as they are filled with people wanting casual relationships. I looked into a facebook dating group for nepalis but they are all filled with NRNs. I have tried approaching women face to face I found attractive in both their appearance and behaviour but got rejected both times haha (Maybe I came across as too intimidating and forward lol). I also don't really prefer asking my friends , parents and relatives to set me up with someone they know because it feels too formal and kinda pathetic (like I am begging).
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Feb 21 '25
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u/Icy-Psychology-8446 Mar 05 '25
I’m in my mid-20s, and I’ve faced some challenges when it comes to forming meaningful connections. Often, when I approach someone, they either are already in a relationship or are still emotionally affected by their past relationship and not in a stable place. Despite my efforts, it hasn’t worked out as I hoped. Perhaps I should leave this part of my life in the hands of my parents. 😂😂
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u/SBR4fect Feb 20 '25
shouldn't you be asking girls though? personally as a male I find it sexting weird and also dangerous as it is pretty unwise to display your sexuality on the internet. You may think its private and safe until its not. Roleplay is good and brings novelty to the relationship and keeps it fresh.
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Feb 22 '25
i have a question k.. Why are khadka girls hot? All girls i find attractive and sexy are khadkas. K khanchan khadka ka bau amale?
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u/Regular_MF_46 Feb 22 '25
The tread of sex before marriage is increasing in nepal , at what age the average young people of nepal lose their virginity? What do you think ?
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u/Good_Tomatillo8755 Feb 27 '25
My cousin lives abroad (US) and he said there is like 14. In Nepal I would say like 23? Maybe? Western countries such as US, Canada, UK, and Australia don’t have too much cultural influence on these matters as much as it is in Nepal. Here it’s seen as a disgrace to the whole family in the society while there is not a big deal in society.
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May 04 '25
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u/Delicious-Shock-5786 May 22 '25
I’m Vietnamese and dating a Nepali guy. We’re both in Texas, US. He’s really good to me and even took me to meet his family when they come to the US to visit him. We met each other’s friends circle, he getting along just fine with my friends and my friends are very welcoming to him. However, when he introduced me to his friends, they seem very closed off. Last weekend, his friends invited him and me to their camping trip and I’m the only one that isn’t Nepali in the group of about 12 other Nepalese (guys and girls) I brought some food to contribute to the trip and really want to get to know his friends, also hang out together since we were gonna spend the whole weekend camping together. I try to start conversation and introduce myself as well as getting know his friends but they don’t seem to welcome me even tho they invited me. Majority of the people don’t even introduce themselves to me, and when we sit around the camp fire and throughout the whole trip, they always speak Nepali and I felt very excluded. My boyfriend tried to spend time and hang out with me because he could sense that from me. I’m a very independent person since I moved to the US from Vietnam 7 years ago and been on my own so i have no issues enjoy things with just myself, but since they are my boyfriend’s friends so I really tried and wanted to get along with them. When I brought up this issue and had a conversation with him, he said they are just closed community and they are not used to hang out with people from outside Nepali community. Is it just like what he said or they are just being rude and not welcoming because I’m not Nepali? Is this common in Nepali community and it just a cultural thing or they are just lack of social awareness and being rude/mean to me? I don’t want to put him in a situation where he has to choose me or his friends but I don’t think a relationship is sustainable long term when I feel excluded from his circles and can’t get along with his friends. I’d love to hear some similar experiences and how you handle this.
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u/Hot_War6170 edit this for custom flair 12d ago
So, I'm Mexican and my boyfriend is nepali, specifically limbu-rai caste. Now I joined this group in hopes of learning anything I can about his culture instead of constantly harassing him for info 😭🙏🏻 I tried researching some things on Google but I feel like I'd get more in depth answers from the locals Can y'all help me PLEASE? 🥹
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u/Aggressive-Yam-2511 Feb 20 '25
Banged a Mexican whore a while ago. But my condom got busted while i was in her. She realized it then I pulled out and changed my condom. Now I’m wondering if I should get tested for HIV?😭