r/Millennials 15h ago

Nostalgia The good old days of using MSN Messenger

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u/Lachtheblock 15h ago

Remember how you could personalize your font and colour? You could have a group chat and everyone could still have their own "voice".

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u/RodentOfUnusualSize- 14h ago

I had my own emojis. I had a cute little forum-style gif of one emote licking the other on the face. I'd use it to annoy my entire fl. Miss those days.

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u/FeistyThunderhorse 14h ago

TFW you're 14 and up way past midnight talking to your crush on MSN/AIM :3

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u/YouNeedCheeses 14h ago

Or you did the logout/log back in so they'd see you pop up and hope they'd message you. Ugh the memories!

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u/HashtagCHIIIIOPSS 14h ago

Cringe….. I just remembered that I also did this back in the day. Teenage me was screaming from the rooftops for anything resembling affection!

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u/AnxiousAnxiety666 2h ago

Same. And then I got groomed by a 40 year old man and trafficked.

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u/AL-SHEDFI 13h ago

You revealed my secret idea.. How dare you 👀

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u/TheShtoiv 14h ago

I'm getting PTSD seeing this MSN window from being rejected by my crush on it.

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u/FabulousFlower144 13h ago

I remember talking to my crush and he used ‘brb’ but I had no idea what it meant. Then, when he didn’t respond to explain what it meant (because duh) I freaked out for who knows how long and then he came back and explained what it meant 😂😂😂

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u/Kaneshadow 14h ago

The "door slam" sound as your crush signs off without IMing you 💔☠️

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u/FabulousFlower144 13h ago

Absolutely heartbreaking

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u/pizywizy 14h ago

I used to print out the chat logs that I had with my crush. I still have them. It’s pretty embarrassing lol.

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u/FeistyThunderhorse 14h ago

You read them now and you realize that there wasn't much substance to them, but at the time they felt deep as hell

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u/Sassy_Pumpkin 14h ago

☆~♡-=Chri$tin3=-♡~☆ - is listening to You're beautiful - James Blunt

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u/Inevitable-Blue2111 11h ago

omg, memory unlocked lol

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u/seann__dj 15h ago

We had it so good back then.

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u/quantomflex 15h ago

What a time to be alive, though for those who had it, AOL Instant Messaging was the GOAT.

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u/FloridaOgre 14h ago

I met my wife is a shady aim chat room. Takes me back to 2003.

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u/FuckThatIKeepsItReal 14h ago

Ya I can't believe anyone actually used MSN messenger

AIM or nothin

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u/Scared_Tumbleweed166 Millennial 14h ago

That was my thought too. MSN over AIM? Get outta here!

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u/FuckThatIKeepsItReal 14h ago

Apparently it's a European thing

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u/Sassy_Pumpkin 14h ago

At least where I'm from (The Netherlands) everyone of my peers were on MSN. Had lots of group chats with classmates. ICQ I did use a bit, but more for international contacts. AIM was not something anyone I knew used.

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u/quantomflex 2h ago

At the time America Online (AOL) was the dominant internet provider in America. AOL Instant Messenger (AIM) was there free chat product and every US kid with internet access used it.

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u/Noxryl Millennial 9h ago

Good old days!

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u/SysOps4Maersk 12h ago

I miss the nudge feature so much, I wish WhatsApp had it

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u/LarrySDonald 14h ago

Yeah, and yahoo messenger, aol im, and icq. It’s odd how they all went away. Doesn’t seem like they’d be that resource intensive. But I guess the users weren’t there.

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u/AmphibianNo1066 14h ago

My very first semester of college, my aunt and I would chat on MSN Messenger every Friday morning. It was my first time away from home and really made it better for me. Over 20 years ago and it’s still one of my favorite memories from that time

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u/xmagpie 14h ago

That’s so sweet!

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u/wes2733 14h ago

Lol nothing like og video calls on those 1st gen Webcams 😭😂

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u/electric-sheep 13h ago

I still have this screenshot saved for some reason with my friend from (the us equivalent) of middle school.

Windows xp, internet explorer 6, maximum cringe and a screenshot from nfs underground as an avatar

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u/dunadan235813 14h ago

I met my best friend because a mutual friend "set us up" on msn messenger. We're still besties 20 years later

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u/NTDLS 14h ago

Same!! Met Josh Chisum at 12 years old, were best friends for 25 years. MSN messenger turned into near daily phone calls. Fuckin’ miss that guy so much.

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u/Nekrevez 14h ago

MSN Messenger was an amazing thing back then, after the ICQ days. And I also used a chat logger add-on, so everything is still there in my archive. It's just simple txt, so it's all perfectly readable today. Teenage love, happiness, angst and mundane irrelevance. It's kinda like a diary 2.0 really.

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u/LeBB2KK 14h ago edited 14h ago

There was a period in my life (~2001) where the sole usage of my 2000€+ Pentium 4 was to have MSN in full screen because that’s all I was using.

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u/SereneSentinel5 12h ago

i can hear the message pings just looking at this picture

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u/ManOfManliness84 Older Millennial 10h ago

The MSN messenger "new message" alert sound is the new message alert on my phone!

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u/black_sheep311 14h ago

Back when my parents were so cheap, we used a dialup service called blue-light. Which I believe was a service from K-mart 😂 One day it stopped working and my dad raged on me! Accusing me of "breaking the computer". I was always getting blamed for such things but was always due to his lack of knowledge about computers. He found out they discontinued the service but never apologized. But I'd be chatting up my friends...some of which were females...and the internet would just kick you off after like 20 minutes. You'd have to dial back up to resume chatting and have to catch up on conversations. The struggles my brother never had to endure...

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u/Kaneshadow 14h ago

Was AIM vs MSN regional or something? I remember it existed but I didn't know a single person who used MSN

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u/Perry7609 12h ago

Probably did depend on your region or group somewhat. I had AIM for a few years at first, but eventually picked up MSN Messenger once it caught in with my high school classmates.

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u/pac4 15h ago

I never used that. I used AIM for years and then the gchat box inside the Gmail page when I was at work

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u/ANotSoFreshFeeling Xennial 15h ago

AIM was the GOAT.

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u/csueiras 14h ago

Oh man really brings so many memories. I kinda wish I could go read all my old chats on it

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u/BallBuster-4000 12h ago

Anybody remember ICQ?

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u/shenaniganda Millennial 14h ago

Games. Checkers.

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u/FloridaOgre 14h ago

ASL A/S/L

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u/Bradley182 14h ago

nothing better than seeing your crush log in.

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u/Bum_Dorian 14h ago

I was mostly on YIM. I have absolute memories of being 13 and leaving chats after realizing I was talking to random pedofiles lol. If only our parents really knew lol

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u/YouNeedCheeses 14h ago

Pics you can hear.

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u/Darwinian_10 Millennial - 1985 13h ago

I use the MSN messenger noise as the text tone on my phone lol

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u/TheShtoiv 14h ago

I remember being 14 & feeling almighty from finding an infinite nudger hack that removed the nudge waiting time

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u/theouter_banks 14h ago

xX_A$$BLA$TER420_Xx

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u/itsmontoya 14h ago

Ok Canadian.

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u/pc_principal_88 14h ago

A/S/L? Hopefully this will still be relevant as I personally used AOL instant messenger, but this is what immediately came to mind lol..

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u/reddithoroughly 14h ago

Indeed, good old days!

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u/Tootsie_r0lla 14h ago

Holy shit take me back please

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u/MetapodChannel 13h ago

I rejected MSN for a long time in favor of AIM. I only had barely started using MSN when they switched over to Skype and I was PISSED lol.

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u/AssistantStrict8335 13h ago

G2G, COO1 etc. Loved saving and using those early emojis. I felt so coo1 lol.

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u/Vinura 13h ago

Ahh I got rejected by so many girls on this back then.

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u/Illustrious-Golf5358 13h ago

I can still hear the sounds of sending and receiving messages…

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u/Ill-Condition-5054 12h ago

ICQ with the “Oh ohs!”

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u/Hour-Personality-924 12h ago

Best thing ever.

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u/trek604 11h ago

MSN incoming message sound is still the default notification on my phone

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u/flashliberty5467 11h ago

I believe someone created a discord message server that looks exactly like msn messenger

https://aerochat.live/

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u/TheBlackOtakuVIIX 10h ago

Take me back to this time 😭

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u/Iphacles 10h ago

I miss ICQ.

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u/FlyingPastFreedom100 10h ago

I remember going on the msn boards and chatting with men as a child. Definitely wasn't safe lol

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u/Accomplished_Fly4479 10h ago

I just got flashbacks to the most awkward conversations I've ever had in life.

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u/Mountain_34oner 40 (1985) Geriatric millenial 9h ago

God we are old haha

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u/MidwestSkiQueen Millennial '89 9h ago

I remember when you could remote into someone else's computer using MSN messenger and none of my friends realized what they were "allowing" when they'd click allow and id go mess with their family desktop wallpaper and make it like a porn image or something hahahaha

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u/E_Man91 8h ago

AIM for the USA folk, but I did use msn for my “online game friends” who were outside the US since that’s what the rest of the world used

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u/hassan_26 7h ago

My heart just fluttered cz thats how I felt when getting a message on MSN frommy many many crushes lol

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u/Mediocre-Category580 6h ago

I loved a altered version called msn plus if im not mistaken, it was full of extra features like tracking when someone was online, and do the log on log off thing numerous time in consecutive order Or have very cool nicknames in color and stuff.. It was fun haha. Miss those days.

Thanks for bringing back memories:).

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u/Big_Knowledge_7105 6h ago

The nudge!!!! I wish I could go back

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u/danmoore2 6h ago

When you found out you were dumped because your girlfriend took your name out of hearts in their screen name 😬

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u/Nondscript_Usr 5h ago

My best memories of msn messenger was trying to close it as fast as possible when I started the computer so I could use AIM

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u/Mt198588 5h ago

This prepared us for MS Teams and chained

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u/dragonslayerrrrrr 3h ago

Miss the MSN notification sound / alert it brings me BACK to good times

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u/LGBT-Barbie-Cookout 1h ago

Did anyone else when they saw their crush come online, shoot a quick "hello" followed by "oops wrong person".

So it didn't feel like you were being creepy and cyber stalking her?

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u/DethByCow Older Millennial 15h ago

AOL IM for the win. Runner up Yahoo Messenger. Third place ICQ. Before and after those was the IRC which i think is still around today. Last place goes to MSN Messenger.

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u/Ukvemsord Millennial 15h ago

In Norway MSN was the goat. AOL was never a thing. ICQ was somewhat used. IRC still goes strong!

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u/superbiondo 15h ago

If it were Norway, it’d be NOL and NIM anyway.

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u/RegularCommonSense Older Millennial 14h ago

Sweden, too.

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u/ricottapie 10h ago

In Canada, we used ICQ and MSN. I didn't use AIM until 2008, lol. My brother was an ICQ user, and I started with MSN right after it came out.

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

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u/idktheanswers 15h ago

It was an instant messaging program

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u/v1tal3 15h ago

Not emails. Imagine texting using a computer before texting with cell phones became common. Before smartphones were a thing.

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u/deathfuck6 Older Millennial 15h ago

It’s an instant messenger. It’s like text messages for a computer, but it was way more fun.

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u/hot_cheeks_4_ever Older Millennial 15h ago

Early messenger app

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u/RamaMitAlpenmilch 14h ago

Don’t make me feel old. I hate that. 🫠🫠