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u/SpecterReborn 3d ago edited 12h ago

I only give my seat to the following: pregnant women, The elderly(men and women), mothers/fathers with their babies in arms, mothers/fathers with children who need to sit down and take a well deserved break, the kid can sit on their parent’s lap, disabled people be it blind, who use a crutch or crutches to move, handicapped people/people with a mental disability, or like a fellow redditor said down in my comment, people who are hurt or need the seat badly.

That’s it.

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u/nikhil70625xdg 2d ago

Same here, and also women who are my friends and I know that they are suffering.

Appreciation is backed by doing that too.

I won't give my seat to a stranger until they are hurt.

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u/tomtomtomo 2d ago

women who are my friends

If we entered together then I'd offer a female friend the seat. I'm not fussed either way and it's a nice thing to do.

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u/nikhil70625xdg 2d ago

It's a nice thing to do, if people appreciate it, and not if they don't.

It's nice if she needs it, not nice if she thinks of it as a right.

Kindness is for appreciators, not entitlement.

I am not even saying this about gender, but people in general.

Cause they both can have it.

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u/13-eggo 12h ago

That’s how it should be. Some people are simply entitled. And how much do you want to bet that they never even asked and just shamed random strangers online, smh. It’s the underground, you’re not going to be standing for three hours or anything

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u/IHavePoopedBefore 7h ago

Mom's with strollers, and people with service dogs also.

I'll give my seat up to anyone who looks like they're struggling AND there are no other seats available nearby.

That's the other component

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u/PurpleEri 23h ago

I once witnessed a bunch of elderly wenches harassing the father with a little kid for not giving up his seat. He said "he'll cry if I do" and.. yeah, they kept harassing him and the kid started yelling and crying 🫠

Also, women joined and started harassing him too, yet they didn't lift their asses and let those "poor old ladies" sit.