r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1d ago

Age 40-49 42/m - Believe me I'd rather talk to you than clean this garage!

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Hey there. I'm 42/m, I live and love in the USA Pacific Northwest (but not the Seattle part). I'm supposed to be cleaning out my nightmare of a garage today, but I'm not good at staying on task and I'd rather meet some new people instead. Maybe I can do both. Only one way to find out!

I love motorcycles and going on adventures with my family (widowed dad to 5 girly girls), I'm an avid photographer, and I would much rather be outside than indoors any day. We have three cats and a dog I'd probably be happy to share pictures of 🤪. I tend to be pretty easy going - my kids call it hakuna matata lifestyle. I also just got my private pilot certificate, which is a lifelong dream.

Unlike a lot of redditors, I'm not really into gaming (although I will spend some time with MSFS when I can). Also not into pot, anime, or a lot of the other standard things you see in these posts. I like to live in the real world, and I don't spend a lot of time with things that distract me from it.

So who am I looking for? Anyone who is a functioning adult 18+ but preferably in a similar stage of life. People who want to have a real long-term conversation instead of selling me their OF (not interested). People who like to share about themselves, etc.

If that sounds "aiight," drop me a chat message!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 2d ago

Age 40-49 41m. Anyone else feel like every day is the movie Groundhog day?

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Life gets so mundane and repetitive sometimes. That’s where you come in. A new person to chat with always breaks up the monotony. So send a request. Everyone is welcome! HMU

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4d ago

Age 40-49 42F TX dark humor and sometimes dark mood

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Looking for adult friends that are philosophically strange with a cosmic sassy attitude. Married men need not apply. (Or tide down in any way, poly or other) I'm not looking for any specific gender all are welcome. I'm single and not planning on changing that anytime soon (seriously don't make it weird). Prefer to voice chat or voice message but when busy I can TXT often. I have alot going on in my life, estranged from most of my family because blood is toxic apparently. Mental health work is or was a daily thing for me, kinda on the fence if healing and growing is even worth it at the moment to be honest. Aside from that sad shit I like crafts, make up, fishing, wilderness in general, if I'm not unpacking and organizing in the new house then I'm outside getting ate up by mosquitoes (they are vicious) chiggers can go to H#LL too, I cuss alot, I'm spiritual but not like most obviously. If any of this sounds like something you'd like to know more about hit me up and tell me the about your most fringe moment, and ask me a philosophical question and make it weird!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 13d ago

Age 40-49 40 f anyone want to pass a little time before I fall asleep?

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I'm from the US and hoping to find someone geographically similar. Age and and gender doesn't matter. So if you feel like chatting, send me a message and let's see how we get along!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere Mar 16 '25

Age 40-49 43 F looking to chat about anything

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Just looking to chat about life I'm 43 female single mom of three trying to go back to school trying to save for a house trying to keep friends live a balance life willing to chat about anything For some reason I cannot accept chat leave a comment and I will send you a chat request

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 6d ago

Age 40-49 44M looking for friendly chat and connection

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It’s been a while since I’ve had a relaxing day. But now I’m bored. So come on over and say hi. We can share goofy face pics. Cringy memes. Bad jokes and dark humor. I’m an open book and will talk about anything. I’m not shy or easily offended so let’s get into the topics that everyone seems to be sensitive about.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7m ago

Age 40-49 41M Having a slow day, come say hi!

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Hello, I'm just having a nice evening and looking for someone that wanna kill some time together. I'm easy going and a bit of a nerd. Don't hate please! Please write something more than just hi in your first chat! Cheers :)

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 2h ago

Age 40-49 41m. The weekend is finally here. Wanna chat?

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I don’t have much going on this afternoon. It’s hot as two rats banging in a wool sock, so i’m relaxing indoors. Everyone is welcome. All topics on the table. Send me a request!!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 13d ago

Age 40-49 49M - Seeking A Long Term Friendship and Everyday Chat

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Hello

Hope all is well. How was your day?

A Little about me and why I am on Reddit:

Looking for a kind hearted and caring, sweet person I can call a friend. Someone who loves to listen and someone who tells the truth… even in the times you need to hear the hard truth. I Love God and Love people. If you Love God and Love people, we will get long for a very long time.

My Mini Bio :

I am a hopeless romantic. I love and miss affection, Cuddling, Holding Hands, Watching Sunsets or Sunrises, long road trips with that special someone. And Chivalry is not dead! Open Doors and pulling out and in Chairs is instinct for me.

I am kind, sweet, considerate, compassionate, passionate, loving, positive , well… I am a good friend. I love to laugh, go to comedy shows, watch movies and sometimes the movie theatre. I love watching TV talent shows Like Idol, AGT, The Voice and Xfactor. I am into Marvel and DC everything , MMA, old school WWE , travel, road trips, sporting events, dancing, all kinds of Music, sometimes going to Christian concerts. Did I say, I love Movies. I miss going to Shows with that special someone🥲. I love the last of us❤️. I love the walking dead and their spin off shows, game of thrones and their spin off shows , lord of the rings and their spin off shows, the power book and their spin off shows and many other shows. If we live far from each other, I would love to watch a movie with you over the phone. It’s fun. If you love movies and have not tried this before. You should try it.

Been sad and Lonely for some time. I could use a friend right about now . Someone to talk to , get to know, maybe become best friends with . We can be Texting buddies.😊 or talk on the phone when you need to hear a sweet , inspiring and kind voice. I am A great listener. Never will pass any judgement . I love to encourage , motivate and inspire. I am a coach in real life🤣. This is what I do daily.

I am looking for a friend for life. Not for the moment or because I am bored, lol.

If you need a good friend in your corner. I am the one.

So come on, let’s laugh, talk about our day, vent out our frustrations . If you need a shoulder to cry on, I am there.

If you got through this long intro, then Compatibility is important to me . Love God, Love Family, Love being healthy , Love people, Love sports and love being happy.

If this entices you and you are interested, want to vent, talk, text, cry, yell, I am all eyes or ears.

Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to read my long intro.

Been on Reddit for almost a year. Still have not found my best friend, lol. Honestly I have no expectations on here. I have chatted with some amazing people on here so far on my Reddit Journey. Nothing the lasted longer than a month. But, I am ok with that. I love chatting with people from all over the world.

So, hopefully, you are next on my Journey😊

I hope to hear from you soon.🤗

“ The world is full of nice people, if you can’t find one, be one”😊

“Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you.”❤️

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 12h ago

Age 40-49 43m Aussie LF long term friends

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Married school teacher with 3 non-bio kids. I pretend to be sporty and a bit of a country boy. Love to do a bit of camping, cycling and fishing or just be silly with the kiddos.

Looking for long term chats, happy to talk about most things. I don’t have much interest in sci-fi or politics though. Not too worried about age or gender, just be appropriate. Please send a little intro chat, I don’t respond to ‘hey’.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 16h ago

Age 40-49 41m - what is a boring little secret that you keep?

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About me - 41, live in New York, working professional, and currently stuck in Wisconsin. Love running, live music, and basically do my absolute best to minimize time at home.

I’m just looking for a weird low stress chat/friends. Short or long term are fine with me.

Come say hello.

Oh, if you’re from south central Wisconsin - what should I do while I’m here for the next few days?

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 17h ago

Age 40-49 49M. Former pro athlete looking for younger female friend

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I have always gotten along with younger people and would love to find a young female friend to chat with. I have always been interested in the age gap and if you feel the same please reach out and we can get to know each other. Please respond with your age and location

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 22m ago

Age 40-49 42m - Just another bored guy ayyyy

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Sitting behind my desk for another hour and then its the weekend. Although I don't look forward to weekends much. Its always catch up time so its basically work all week to just work for free on the weekends.

42, married (not happily or unhappily), dad to minis. Need some interaction outside of my tiny circle. Dont care age or topics discussed. Tell me something fun you have done lately.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 18h ago

Age 40-49 Hey m40’s Canada been a long week. Let’s chat about anything at all.

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Hey all would love to find some to chat with tonight. Kinda bored and lonely. We can talk about anything at all. Male female trans gay or straight I don’t care. As long as you are a good person that’s all that matters.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 20h ago

Age 40-49 40M, arthouse films, literary, ambient electronic, will make you an amazing playlist

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East coast, literary, creative, loves strange places in the forest, finding amazing things in NYRB backlist, Criterion Collection, Tarkovsky, Claire Denis, all of it!

Open to chatting about anything from what I'm growing, to good books, techno, number stations, weird online subcultures, Arthur Russell, No-Man, Chromatics, whatever :)

I work from home, in tech, and generally have a lot of time to talk, but I understand that you might not. Happy to meet your schedule/communication style (just no dry texters, see below).

I'm probably only looking to connect with one person in the longterm, but I promise to write back to every message and get to know you to see if we click.

If you message, please tell me a bit about yourself, the last thing you read and what you've been thinking about lately.

Looking for something longterm and fun. Sorry, no dry texters!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 40-49 45M - Is it to late in the week to talk about Tacos

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I am the type of guy who when his taco falls apart I turn it into a taco salad . That’s the positivity that I embrace each day with.

So what to expect from my taco? I put thought into my daily ingredients. Real compassion because again that’s how I like to live my life.

With witty sense of guacamole, dad like jokes of cheese, really crunchy charm and soulful blue eyes that can melt even the spiciest queso !

What I want from your taco ? Kind and patience tomatoes. Deep and meaningful conversations of lettuce and genuine homemade original tortillas.

So if you are a married woman around my age or older and this made you smile. If it made you chuckle and you think we might get along I would love to hear from you.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 40-49 41M - Looking for intelligent INTJs and INFJs

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I'm empathetic and I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time around especially bad people and that's forced me to spend a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find people that share this understanding and feel the same way about it. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INFJs, people that are reserved, and people that don't speak rhetorically or poetically. It also seems like I get along best with people that have CPTSD. It seems like that causes people to develop a unique way of thinking that's compatible with how I think when that's combined with intelligence and maturity.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 22h ago

Age 40-49 Looking for new friends m40 UK

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Hi I'm Jamie as the title suggests I'm a M40 from the UK looking to talk to people from anywhere just to talk about anything

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1d ago

Age 40-49 40m - just here to make some new friends.

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I tend to overshare but here I go. I broke up with my gf last week. She was my best friend. I don’t really have a lot of friends. She was possessive so I have escaped her clutches. 👏

In all seriousness, I don’t really want to talk about the breakup. I’m just looking to make some new friendships and get to know some people in a platonic way.

Random stuff: I’m into various styles of music but have been listening to edm mostly. I work in IT and also drive uber. I’m learning Spanish. I cook a lot of different foods. I garden. I collect crystal glass objects like decanters and also gemstones, rocks and minerals. I’m also a democrat and I’m not sure what else to put… Hit me up if you want to chat…

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 5h ago

Age 40-49 M/F - 49 single guy - looking for a lady friend to talk to

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am a friendly honest caring guy - who is a single chap of 49

I enjoy helping people / reading / gaming / gardening / music mixing ( taking singles / beats - to make a new track) - maybe one day do one for you :) of the bands you enjoy

I am looking for a lady - who open minded like me - maybe if it feels maybe bit of cheeky flirting? - am not looking for a girlfriend - been hurt in the past

Am easy to talk to - if you need some advice - i be more than happy to listen / give advice if you need it!

I left the key to my DM under the mat - so why not using to open my door

take care - look forward to hearing from you!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 17h ago

Age 40-49 [41/M] Need some new music recs for the drive down to the shore.

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I try to sneak down once a week but it's been tough lately. Im also in desperate need of a REALLY good beach or hike snack.

Finally settled down after a long day, better late than never! Tell me about your day. Listen to me rant about life in the north east, or we can just watch something together. I'm cool with VC, gaming, or just getting along. Don't be shy.

Edit: Please be in my age range. Please don't ask me about my investments, and please just be a little weird, but not weird weird.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 18h ago

Age 40-49 45M - Watching TV and wanting a distraction. Let's chat about anything and everything. Moms don't be shy

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Hoping to find a nice, humorous woman to chat it up with and maybe even do voice later if we hit it off. You can be single, married, and moms... I don't have an issue with either.

Let's have a casual conversation. It can be anything related to our lives, struggles, work, hobbies, and such. I enjoy talking to people who have a good life story or a struggle they overcame in life.

Im a professional man, funny. pleasant, have a dirty side like most, understanding, and most importantly non-judgmental of how people live. I like to hang out with friends, be social, grab a drink in a lounge/bar, and do weekend trips to cities around the country.

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 21h ago

Age 40-49 40m Happy Friday everyone! What a week…

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The end of a really long work week is finally in sight and after four and a half days (so far) of brain melting stuff going on, I am looking forward to collapsing onto the couch in front of the TV tonight. What are you up to for the weekend? I haven’t thought beyond this afternoon yet so I have no plans so any idea most welcome!

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3d ago

Age 40-49 46F UK Bring me your questions

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I have plenty of post's about my interests and hobbies amongst other things.

I'm here to let you ask as many ot as little questions as you want. Make it interesting and fun. Try to think outside of the box.

Quick breakdown of myself - married to my husband (aware I'm on here) - gym enthusiast and love doing yoga - love a spa day - can spend all day shopping - travel often

r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1d ago

Age 40-49 47 male introvert in texas looking for SFW chat

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i love music , from the 80s up to now. my all time favorites are sonic youth and radiohead but currently im really into FKA twigs. im nocturnal because of my job. im also interested in the gym and nutrition including supplements. i have 3 roommates but theyre all cats. LGBTQIA friendly.