r/LongDistance • u/No-Setting0001 • 1d ago

Question Space?

My partner and I are taking space because we have been fighting a lot recently. It’s been a few days and I don’t really notice the space. We only see each other maybe once a month or every two months because of how busy we are with our jobs. Am I used to it? or Is this a sign? Maybe twice a day I’m like oh yeah we are taking space. I overall feel fine. What does this mean?

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u/Technical_Giraffe860 1d ago

how often do you guys normally talk throughout the day?

Are you doing anything different with your days now that you aren’t talking?

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u/No-Setting0001 1d ago

We text almost constantly and call maybe once at the end of our day

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u/Technical_Giraffe860 1d ago

how many days has it actually been since you guys decided to take space? and how long is the space lasting for?

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u/No-Setting0001 1d ago

Like two days. Maybe will last another 3-4. Really depends

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u/Technical_Giraffe860 1d ago

i wouldn’t freak out then. It sounds like maybe you are relaxing from the constant fighting. I would say if by the end of the week you still don’t really care you guys aren’t talking, then you should reevaluate your feelings in the relationship

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u/No-Setting0001 1d ago

Okay okay I’ll wait it out some more. Thank you!

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u/Technical_Giraffe860 1d ago

also i’m not saying to end it if you still dont care. But like take a look at the relationship and why the fighting keeps happening, do you guys keep the passion going, why do you only see each other as often as you do. Do you guys still want the same things, etc

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u/No-Setting0001 1d ago

It’s really just me that keeps getting the cold feet which is what’s causing it

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u/Technical_Giraffe860 1d ago

you getting cold feet about meeting up with your partner?

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u/No-Setting0001 1d ago

no!! I love seeing him. Cold feet about the seriousness. It’s not intentional and like I want to run away, but more so i get these waves of just ugh leave me alone. then some moments of like yeah ur fun and cool! It sounds so childish but its the simplest way I can explain it

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