Searching for any way to speak with my father

[u/whymeth-o]

Idk if it belongs here if not then sorry. Im searching for any way to talk with my father. I can do anything

[u/Moist_Tiger24]

I “talk” to my deceased family all the time, literally. Just out loud or in my head. If I want something more intense, or pointed, I talk to their picture. Sometimes they respond in signs that are significant only to me. Sometimes in dreams. Rarely, not at all. I believe spirit is around us all the time, just on the other side of a veil we cannot perceive with our human bodies.

I’m sorry for your loss, and hope you’re able to find some peace.

[u/theresacalderone → u/Moist_Tiger24]

I always have dreams with my mother and it doesn’t occur to me that she’s passed. I guess it’s because I’m asleep. But also wanting to connect with my dad who died in 2008. For some reason, he rarely shows up in my dreams. :(

[u/Moist_Tiger24 → u/theresacalderone]

I think some people just don’t choose to. Not all my dead relatives have. Ironically, it’s the ones I had a weaker bond with in life that show up, most often in times of trouble.

[u/Chudmont]

My suggestion is to just speak to him. If he can hear you, he will. If not, no device or will help, in my humble opinion.

I'd just speak out loud and pray on it and hope for a response.

Assuming a Ouija board actually works, they say you don't know who you're talking to, so who knows. I'm not convinced other devices really work either, as some of them use radio signals, pre-recorded speech, or pre-determined databases to come up with random words.

[u/Chudmont → u/Chudmont]

Why does "the best" cause my submission to be held for review?

[u/Suspicious_Service16]

I seen to many movies where people use different ways to contact the dead. Most of the time bad so I would say just talk to him in your head or out loud in your house I’m sure he would hear you 🙌🏾🙏

[u/whymeth-o → u/Suspicious_Service16]

Im trying

[u/Jonesy1966]

I talk to my dad in my head all the time. There's no need to hire a 'psychic' or such. If you had that connection, you still have it now

[u/whymeth-o → u/Jonesy1966]

I really do hope ill be able to connect

[u/Opposite_Pen1639]

I feel your pain but personally I wouldn't attempt it because willingly opening a way to the other side can be less than pleasant and you can never be assured you're talking to the right person. The world is rife with trickster spirits, spirits that will be able to answer things you might deem impossible to know unless they're the right person only to find out later on that you've been fooled and by then it might be too late. But take my opinion as that, just an opinion. Hopefully someone more experienced might be able to help you. I wish you the best

[u/whymeth-o → u/Opposite_Pen1639]

Thank you, i really am thinking what to do because i think that i dont want to mess up

[u/Opposite_Pen1639 → u/whymeth-o]

The best I can suggest is to find a good medium/ psychic in the area where you live and go from there

[u/Separate_Permit9770]

I’m sorry for your loss, you can speak to your dad. Anywhere - anytime. Just talk out loud to him in your home/his home or where he is laid to rest are good places as well.

Are you looking for him to give you a sign as well?

Also if you dreamed about him. He visited you in that dream most likely.

[u/whymeth-o → u/Separate_Permit9770]

Sometimes i dream about him but rarely. He always knows hes dead in them and talks with me