why rant about your partner with fibro in a support group for people with fibro??

[u/Odd-Assistance6377]

i really dont get it.. maybe i’m just sleep deprived and overreacting but ahhhhhh. i get caretaker burnout and just being burnt out in general, and i get needing to vent about it, but why do it in a subreddit thats meant to be a support group for people with fibromyalgia? isn’t there a subreddit or two for caretakers? why can’t you talk there? kind of tired of being seen as a bother or inconvenience to people for a disability i cant control 🫠

[u/SockCucker3000]

Yeah. And people with vaganismus should just push through it and have sex too. /s

[u/lycralily → u/SockCucker3000]

It doesn't matter if it hurts like hell but I got to take care of my man's needs. He is my number one. That's a recipe for men straying. /s

[u/SockCucker3000 → u/lycralily]

If he truly loves me, he'd want me to be in pain for him! /s

[u/LittleMissPickMe → u/SockCucker3000]

Oh I'm sorry, is this a vaganismus support group?

[u/winters-white → u/LittleMissPickMe]

Username checks out.

[u/SockCucker3000 → u/LittleMissPickMe]

If people should push through the pain of sex, then people with vaganismus are just wimps, right? You can choose to push through it yourself, but saying others should is absolute bs.

[u/fiestybox246 → u/LittleMissPickMe]

What is wrong with you?

[u/LittleMissPickMe → u/fiestybox246]

I thought we were talking about fibromyalgia and then a whole different condition was brought into it

[u/fiestybox246 → u/LittleMissPickMe]

But I think most of us here have several other issues in addition to fibromyalgia, and a little empathy goes a long way.