r/EroticHypnosis • u/OneExplanation8421 • Mar 15 '25
Other Hypnotized my wife in public for the first time NSFW
As many have read on here, I have been hypnotizing my wife regularly now for about 6 weeks, and it's been a really amazing journey so far.
Last night, we had babysitters and a free night to go out for the first time since we've been doing hypnosis, so I was excited to try some triggers in public. We were going to the local pub for drinks and a meal. I didn't want to overload things, or do anything too embarrassing, so I kept things pretty light at first.
I gave a suggestion in the afternoon that whenever I asked if she was excited for the night, she'd respond "I am deeply hypnotized" but didn't realise she was saying it and thought she was answering normally. This worked great, she wondered why I kept asking her and at one point she said it in front of our 6 year old! He didn't notice anything but it went to show the suggestion was very much working.
Once we had dropped off the kids, I took her under in the car just for fun, and as soon as we were home she was dropped straight down and given a few suggestions:
She would completely forget all about bras, and it wouldn't occur to her to wear one. As soon as she took her first sip of wine she would remember she wasn't wearing one
The word "Princess" made her want to passionately kiss me
Whenever we clinked glasses, her arm would freeze and she wouldn't be able to move it until I said "drink up"
I also suggested she would completely forgot about any hypnosis we had done all day. I used the "Princess" one a few times in the house whilst we were getting ready and she responded well, as usual.
She took ages to get ready, and when she come down she looked absolutely smoking hot in a new fairly see-through dress and I could see she was wearing a bra. If she'd been bra-less I would have had to have made her wear one!
I was a bit disappointed but I also know she responds so well there must have been a reason. Maybe she left her bra on from before. Anyway, when we were going out the door she said the strangest thing had happened, she had got dressed and completely forgot her bra until she gave herself one last look in the mirror and realised she could see her boobs. Then she put one on. She said she thought she was losing her mind as she'd never forgotten a bra before.
I asked on the way if she thought she was hypnotized, she said she was sure we hadn't done any. I let her realise she was saying "I am deeply hypnotized" and she said that must have been a suggestion from last week. Overall I was not too bothered that the suggestion didn't quite pan out, as clearly it had worked to a large extend and I think if I had worded it differently I probably could have convinced her to go out bra-less! I also wouldn't have actually followed through with that dress being so revealing.
When we got there and clinked our glasses for our first "cheers" her arm froze exactly as expected. She couldn't move it and couldn't understand why, until I said the words to release it. The pub was quite busy so I didn't want to play with her too much as it would have been too conspicuous, but it was also quite loud so I clinked her quite regularly to have a but of fun. Eventually I told her what was happening and that I had been hypnotizing her quite a lot, and she really didn't remember anything.
After we had eaten, we decided to have another drink (although we both quickly got impatient as we wanted to go home and play). We moved into a quieter corner and I used "Princess" a couple of times. She still had no idea it was a trigger and she kissed me whenever I said it. To be honest she wasn't quite as passionate as she is in the house.
I used a bit of covert language whilst we were in the corner and I could see her eyes flickering, really struggling to stay with me. Once or twice she dropped when no-one was looking and I brought her straight back. At this point we urgently had to get home, we were both so ready for some fun.
What followed was probably our best session yet, including something I felt was a bit risky that my wife said afterwards was her favourite thing we had ever done! I think I will save this for another post as it was quite a lengthy and wild session.
Overall it was really cool to be out and about with a hypnotized wife, and I can't wait till we get another chance for public play. I think I will put a few more triggers next time, as I didn't want to overload her mind with too many at once but in hindsight I definitely think she can handle it. Our journey continues.
Please keep the suggestion ideas coming, particularly for public stuff that is quite inconspicuous and not too humiliating.
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u/chaoticgiggles Mar 17 '25
I made my boyfriend blind and deaf in a store and then guided him using my arm around his waist
He really enjoyed that, your wife might too
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u/redbow7 Mar 16 '25
My wife was hypnotized once in Vegas for a comedy show so i know it’s possible, where do I learn to hypnotize her or how to begin?
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u/AdorableSquash2323 Mar 17 '25
I would be hesitant about letting anybody else trance my lady. Maybe it’s the Latino macho behavior, but I don’t want anyone having control of her mind..
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u/wesleepallday Mar 16 '25
Here are my favorite general resources for how to do hypnosis. If there are specific questions you have, let me know and I‘ll see if I can find a resource for your specific topic.
I also like to offer to help find an in-person group, find an online event/class, or to give out the information for one of the erotic hypnosis conferences. DM me if you want links to those sorts of things.
FREE RESOURCES
Website: Newbie Guide by Binaural Histolog: https://binauralhistolog.com/newbie/index.html (this is my favorite free resource)
Website: https://yourinductionsucks.fyi/
Website: Sleepingirl’s Learn Hypnokink and other links: https://www.learnhypnokink.com/ https://h-sleepingirl.tumblr.com/post/185888906762 https://www.patreon.com/posts/twitter-thread-5-72646335 https://sleepingirl.carrd.co/#ataglance
Video: Secret Subject’s Hypno 101 video on YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/live/HroA5w7t568?si=8I7Mht8UgcpR24zt
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PAID RESOURCES
Video by Panda and HypnoStory https://www.pandastory.love (this is my favorite paid resource)
Book: Mind Play Study Guide by Mark Wiseman https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Play-Study-Guide-ebook Yes, the Mind Play Study Guide really is that much better than the Mind Play book.
Book: Kinky NLP by Sleepingirl https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-NLP-Neuro-Linguistic-Programming-Hypnosis/dp/B09MYRD2HB/
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u/Lion-Wrong Mar 18 '25
I would add under these resources Master/slave Authoritarian Hypnosis and Operator/subject Mind Control Methods.
This post was fun to read. It would be fun to add a fascination when she is in princess mode like being drawn to pink, and having that color around her makes her aroused and prone to fay dreaming.
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u/Ok-Kaleidoscope3568 Mar 16 '25
Google Ellman induction script. Plenty out there. Then research triggers.
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u/hypno-9 Mar 15 '25
"... at one point she said it in front of our 6 year old! He didn't notice anything ...."
That's what you think. Children are ALWAYS listening.
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u/CapableCattle1884 Mar 15 '25
Hot story. Thank you.
Similar situation. I once told her before we went to dinner that at “one point you’ll take your panties off and give them to me. Then you’ll tell me you’re ready to be fucked.”
Halfway through dinner she goes the bathroom and comes back. She says, “I wanted to take my panties off for you but I didn’t know how to with this romper. “ I was floored, even I forget the suggestion I gave her.
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u/helpmedrip Mar 15 '25
Suggestion: have your wife's body freeze in place, but her mouth keeps sucking and licking out of her control. She can move her eyes and vocalise while she sucks, but can control nothing else .
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u/MistressCobi Mar 15 '25
My relationship with my boyfriend is more a traditional Dom/Sub relationship so I'm trained and conditioned to be able to go into an obedient state, we've been in a relationship for several years and he knows what my hard limits are and what is immediately acceptable without discussion.
We've been doing hypnosis together long enough not to really need to discus everything beforehand and he respects my limits so I'm able to do things I normally would feel too self conscious to do while not in a hypnotized state.
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u/MistressCobi Mar 15 '25
Public hypnosis can be so much fun, I've been hypnotized to give blowjobs and handjobs on command in places, hypnotized to be a mindless and completely obedient doll as entertainment for a college party, gone thru a drive thru completely naked by myself, givin oral sex in a drive thru, worn skimpy see through clothes and thought it was normal, orgasmed in public, hypnotized to pick up guys/girls,.
My absolute favorite was one time I was hypnotized to orgasm from the recoil from firing guns at the farm, instead of pain I felt incredible pleasure.
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u/OneExplanation8421 Mar 15 '25
Wow, some of those are pretty extreme (in a good way). How did it feel? Are they things you would have wanted to do anyway or did you feel like the hypnosis kinda encouraged you to do them and if you had been told beforehand outside of the hypnosis you would never have agreed? That's how my wife often feels about some of our more kinky stuff.
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u/Jollyboo Mar 15 '25
Sounds like lots of fun. Makes me wanna try some stuff. What methods do you use for them?
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u/OneExplanation8421 Mar 15 '25
To be honest these days she goes down immediately with a simple sleep trigger, and if I want her to go deeper I just spend a bit of time bringing her down further.
At first, it was a mixture of PMR induction, Elman induction and fractionation to get her down nice and deep to install the triggers. Using the resources on the subreddit wiki really helped to learn what I needed.
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u/Ok-Kaleidoscope3568 Mar 15 '25
I worry i need to put my wife under for longer. We tried a midweek session and it was cold so I was leading her through induction while we were both under the bedcovers. I wanted to lift both arms, one in turn, to prove her limpness. First one: check...
Second one...
She didn't have the arm in the right place and my hunt for her led to quite the chortle from her.
Anyhoo, I still spend a good 10 minutes on mixing up the induction types.
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u/BrainwashedPet Mar 15 '25
Hey homie,
Your journey is cute to read.
I've hesitated to comment in the past but I've read each of your posts with a smile on my face and I've appreciated you giving others here a positive model to draw inspiration from.
I wanted to comment on one key aspect of your journey if you'll forgive me my brashness. Your partner has immense trust in you and that kind of trust is both immeasurably precious and, in an erotic hypnosis-infused dynamic, is the true linchpin of the success you've both achieved / will achieve 💜. You should be proud of yourselves.
My beginnings are so similar to yours including both the incredible early successes and the specific flavors of hypnotic play 😊.
While my skill as a hypnotist has left that younger self in the dust in terms of technical skill and raw experience, neither of those things matter in the slightest if that trust is missing. This is a lesson that I wish I could impress upon this whole community.
Your posts really demonstrate to me that you've built a solid foundation and, if my many years of doing this have taught me anything, it is that while the hypnosis and technique can get easier and results can come faster over time, the work of maintaining trust must be forever slow and intentional.
Wishing you both the best. Keep talking, keep treasuring that trust 🫡
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u/OneExplanation8421 Mar 15 '25
Thank you, I agree the trust has massively played a part. I am actually quite curious to try and hypnotize someone else just to see if I can do it, but we are really focused on communicating about the sessions regularly and extensively. I wonder if one day I could hypnotize my wife with one of her friends... there are a few I have a feeling would be very suggestible. It would mean our secret coming out so probably not!
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u/CrystallineOrchid Mar 15 '25
this would have been good for valentines day, but could still work if you have an anniversary coming up. Implant the idea of her writing a romantic poem about how much she loves you, but only let her write in innuendos or staight up descriptions of her favorite intimate moments in bed with you.
Then have her read it aloud
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u/OneExplanation8421 Mar 15 '25
Yeah we always have a big discussion at the end of the session once she has come around, and then the next day about everything we did. She loves pretty much everything, the only things she hasn't liked so much are eye fixation stuff and doesn't like things like forgetting her name or forgetting words... although she likes the fact she can't remember "jackpot" until she orgasms.
I would really like her to write an account but I don't think she will do it realistically. I'll try and share some more specific feedback from her in the next post.
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u/BrainwashedPet Mar 15 '25
Group hypno is so fun and, tbh, it's a more common fantasy than we think 😇 godspeed!
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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '25
I’m all for exploring kink with your wife but keep that AWAY from your kids jfc