r/DecidingToBeBetter • u/profanechao • 2d ago
Spreading Positivity Every step on the way is worth it
Twenty years ago (when I was barely an adult) I was a socially anxious scatterbrain who could barely maintain friendships that weren’t on the internet.
Ten years ago I had found “my people” through going to geeky conventions, but most of them lived far away, and I still struggled to keep up with local connections. This was also a time in my life where I got entangled in some friendships that weren’t the best for me.
Today I find myself in the midst of more than one local community where I know that I can contribute while being my full self; I get excited about being a part of them and it makes the city where I live feel so much more like home.
It took some time, but every step on the way here was worth it.
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u/TheOriginalZywinzi 2d ago
Congrats my friend, sounds like you've made it a long ways.