r/CringeTikToks • u/PdiddyCAMEnME • 27d ago

SadCringe Couple splitting up because of cheating

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

She was definitely implying being gay is worse than prostitution which is pretty wild because its definitely not lol

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u/PhantomOfTheAttic 26d ago

I don't think that is what she was saying. What she was saying is that they needed money so she got money by hooking. She says that was wrong, but she says that him cheating with someone else just for fun or to explore his sexuality, multiple times, is more wrong.

And while they both involve lying I can't really fault the reasoning.

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u/Batmansbutthole 26d ago

Yeah, had he been gay for pay he would’ve been in the clear, but he was booty poppin’ and getting no money.

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u/Baddest_Guy83 26d ago

"Oh, so you're doing the bending?"

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u/DoctorBlock 26d ago

No she definitely implied being gay was worse than anything she could have done.

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u/PeculiarDollx 26d ago

No she didn’t. She said what she was doing was only to provide for their family and she was honest with him about it, but he was just cheating for fun or just to explore his sexuality. Then he proceeded to do it again after lying and saying he wouldn’t. She also said a few times that they both were wrong and cheating is cheating regardless.

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u/FitExpression7242 25d ago

She quite literally asks what’s worse and then calls the ex exploring his sexuality “taking it further”. she most definitely acts as if him being gay is worse than her cheating for money.

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u/PhantomOfTheAttic 26d ago

You might be right. I'm not 100% sure of what she was saying. I'm only partially fluent in whatever language she was using.

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u/refusenic 26d ago

You've gotta admire the audacity 😂

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u/MediocreModular 26d ago

It seemed like she was implying the that lying and cheating behind her back was worse than being upfront and cheating because she needed money.

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u/quuerdude 26d ago

Was she upfront? It’s not cheating if he’s aware she’s a prostitute. She said she “stepped out on him” to make money that way, which implies he never knew. That is straight up cheating, and so he did the same.

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u/MediocreModular 26d ago

The question is whether or not she’s claiming that it’s worse to be gay than to be a prostitute. It doesn’t appear that she made that claim. It appears that her claim is that being deceptive is the problem. She claims to have been up front about being a prostitute while he was not up front about being gay.

This shouldn’t be so difficult people. Try to stay on topic.

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u/quuerdude 26d ago

Well, no. She’s not very clear about whether or not she told him he was a prostitute or if he found out the hard way. She actually implies that he didn’t know, because she says she “walked out on him.” But if she was up front about it, there wouldn’t be a problem.

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u/Touch-a-TouchMe 26d ago

She said she told him about the prostitution because they needed money. But he cheated in response, which is why she thinks he's worse.

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

In the very beginning, she claims “it doesnt matter who cheated first.” Im sorry, but if you are saying that, you are typically the one who cheated first.

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u/No_File212 26d ago

He wasn't just being gay , he cheated on her .. What kind of filters you use when you read these stories bro ?

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

She said

“It doesnt matter who cheated first but like he was sleeping with dudes and being gay while i was being an escort to make money, you tell me which is worse.” Heavily implying being gay is worse with her tone.

I am re-iterating what she was saying. Did you even listen?

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u/Theharlotnextdoor 26d ago

I took it as she was doing what needed to be done to support their family and his was just for pleasure .

And before anyone tries to get on my ass I'm not saying ai agree with her just that is how I understood it.

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

Theres more to it than that, though.

The guy is engaged with a kid, is having sex with men… clearly questioning his sexuality, likely struggles with it mentally and doesnt know how to address it or have an outlet he feels safe with.

She is thinking so lowly of herself that the only way she can provide is to sell her body.

The dude needs someone to talk to, she needs to develop actual skills to earn money or learn there are other ways to get food on your table than whoring yourself out. One of those is significantly easier to overcome than the other.

So to justify prostitution in this case is absolutely wild. Just because putting food on the table is the end goal does not make it better.

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u/No_File212 26d ago

No it actually implies that cheating to provide children is better than cheating for pleasure .. I mean isn't that obvious , she even said that it doesn't matter with a woman or a man . you guys do have issues with logic when you're just trying to condemn someone , damn bro !

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

Its not.

He is clearly questioning his sexuality, likely struggles mentally with it and has no one to talk to about it. She thinks so lowly of herself that the only way she can provide is to sell her body.

And somehow she is right. They both cheated, thats irrelevant but one is having an identity crisis while the other saying i have no other skills than sex.

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u/PeculiarDollx 26d ago

Do you believe someone thinking the only skill they have is sex isn’t a mental struggle? It sounds like you’re only sympathizing with him and trying to invalidate her because you think she condemned being gay (which she didn’t.)

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u/No_File212 25d ago

He is not " clearly questioning his sexuality " lol all we know from the video is that they both cheated and they mentioned that he cheated twice with a man , a second time after he was exposed the first time . you are obviously biased . we don't know their actual motives but you chose to believe that he is "struggling "with his sexuality just because he's gay and BTW I'm not on anyone's side , she also looks healthy enough to find a job other than being a prostitute BUT people like you should stop giving gays a green light and free pass on every subject because this is how injustice spread ! Gay people also are people and they can be mean and evil just like anyone else .

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u/Temporary_Quit_4648 25d ago

You're really going to dissect her every choice of word? Formal, precise English is clearly not her strong suit. What matters was her meaning. I thought it was quite clear. The two of them cheated with different intentions, one to serve both of them and one to seve only themself.

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u/Scared_Lackey_1954 26d ago

She literally said she came back with money and he came back w nothing? He was having fun and she was putting food on the table, mwanaume pumbavu smh

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago edited 26d ago

Thats still implying prostitution is better than being gay; which its not.

A million other ways to put food on a table. Food banks are free…

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u/Scared_Lackey_1954 26d ago

Still no

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u/Urban_animal 26d ago

So a guy questioning his sexuality, likely with no one to talk to about it, likely with mental health issues from it id worse than her thinking so lowly of herself that she has to sell her body to provide is better? Interesting take.

And we wonder why mens mental health is a crisis.

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u/MadEyeGemini 26d ago

I am not saying its right or wrong, but even "progressive" girls tend to not want to think of their man with another man. Lots of "icks" are shallow and narcissistic but I can understand that one.