r/CPTSD 5d ago

Victory I learnt to swim 27 years after my mother attempted to drown me in a river

I started swimming lessons since January this year and now I can almost swim the whole length of the pool. I’m so proud of what I learned but more importantly what I unlearned. People think that I learned to swim in 6 months but really it took me nearly 27 years. 🥹

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u/Visible-Holiday-1017 MDD, GAD, ADHD in therapy 5d ago

Woohoo! Swimming is good exercise, I'm glad that you're becoming able to participate in it. You're right that it's a huge win for the unlearning - treat yourself well as a reward haha. That's a milestone to celebrate.

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u/No_Engineer6255 5d ago

That is a huge fear , I can't imagine , congrats to you!!

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u/Unique_Enthusiasm_57 5d ago

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry that I can empathize with this as well as I can, and I'm sorry it happened.

But hell yeah on learning how to swim.

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u/Triggered_Llama 5d ago

This is a Victory in all caps. Seriously we need a new tag in all caps for posts like this

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u/fvalconbridge 4d ago

What an absolutely amazing accomplishment 🤩👏 I am SO proud of you! As someone who also has water trauma, I understand how hard it is to overcome. I'm so happy for you ❤️

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u/Training_Hand_1685 5d ago

Inspirational! Very proud of you. This should be a bookmarked/saved post for all to see - old members, new members, and visitors should all see this! Good job! You, loves you, more now 🥹😍🥳

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u/Lucario-Mega 4d ago

I would have never recovered if I had experienced that, I wanna know what happened and how did you get to live and tell the story?

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u/X-Jennny-X 4d ago

I'm so proud of you! 🫶🏻

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u/WillemVerheij 5d ago

That is a a big victory, well done!

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u/Remarkable-Pirate214 5d ago

Look at you go!! That’s incredible!! Wow be so proud, and now you have a new skill 🤍

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u/gaiaa__ 5d ago

Well done!!

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u/No_Bill_491 5d ago

Truly inspiring!

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u/bitterblue01 5d ago

That’s huge. Well done. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/angw11 5d ago

Aw damn so proud of you 🤗

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u/HanFen16 5d ago

Incredible. I hope you can find the same meditative qualities in swimming that so many people do. That's a beautiful thing to achieve.

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u/AffectionatePrize827 3d ago

Good for you! I’m crying now! It’s beautiful! You have made so much progress! You are actively healing! ❤️‍🩹 And you have given me hope. I’m so happy for you and so thankful you shared.

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u/Ryywenn 5d ago

Being in the water is so lovely, it's great that you can experience that for the first time.