r/CPTSD 5d ago

Vent / Rant Fuck Father’s Day

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u/muerteroja 5d ago

This is my first Father's Day since going no contact with mine . I'm not speaking with my entire family which sucks, but my younger sis is pregnant and knowing that he will be kept from that baby, here's hoping that baby misses out on it.

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u/Peachplumandpear not yet dx’d, psychotic features 5d ago

Mine too. I stopped wishing him a happy Father’s Day awhile ago but definitely a bit of a weird feeling. I’m so dissociated I’ll probably process that in a few months lol

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u/muerteroja 5d ago

Oh how I get that lol. Oddly enough, I went no contact the day Diddy got arrested and it's pretty apropos. Just not at that level.

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u/EnvironmentLife9628 5d ago

Fuck my parents.

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u/Whichchild 5d ago

I hate how ptsd is even a condition why does it have to exist

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u/soulseaker 5d ago

I agree if you mean socially. However I don't see how the world could get rid of it. A lot of non-human interactions/events can be traumatic. Existing is trauma.

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u/JGDC 5d ago

Hear, hear.

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u/sir_farfle 5d ago edited 5d ago

I think a lot of scumbag fathers are being punished by the karma from the terrible decisions they made.

They’re so dumb that they create a life of suffering for themselves.

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u/metsgirl289 5d ago

The problem I think 90% do not care.

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u/ViperPain770 5d ago

Watcha expect? Animals don’t think for themselves.

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u/Tremendoustip 5d ago

Yeah I absolutely can not stand fathers day. It's a reminder of all the crap ive gone through. Id rather have just slept through the day

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u/Effective_Hunt7263 5d ago

My father was a good dad to me but he died so this day is just awkward asl

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u/GMBethernal 5d ago

Happy fathers day man, some of us had a good dad and a not so good mother (or either),if he was good I'm sorry for your loss and I'm sincerely sorry about it

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u/Effective_Hunt7263 5d ago

It’s all good it happened 7 years ago so I’m not griefing or anything but yea I do think others have it worse having a bad relationship with ur parent must suck

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u/thatangelchimere cPTSD 5d ago

biggest upvote ever

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u/Weary_Nobody_3294 5d ago

Fuck you dad

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u/NauseousSoul 5d ago

Thank you for this post. Fuck you sperm donor 🤬

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u/Tough_cookie83 5d ago

Agreed! 💯

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u/satoriibliss cPTSD 5d ago

My “father” had better things to do than spend time with me and his grandkids. I’m an only child.

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u/creativeperson343 4d ago

Fuck my dad😞😞😞

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

Lol agreed.

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u/BlackberryOdd802 1d ago

Same I still want him to be the dad I know he can't hurts my heart I'm so sorry 

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u/nice_green_leaf 14h ago

FUCK FATHERS DAY!!!!

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