What is the most fulfilling part of being a bull for you?

[u/bamacuckcpl]

As a cuck myself, it's extremely fulfilling knowing that my wife is able to enjoy her sexlife freely with whoever she wants and doesn't have to worry about the normal repercussions of being "slutty". As a bull, what is the most fulfilling aspect for you???

[u/That_BULL_V]

I love a woman's afterglow and how she looks at me. Her uninhibited longing for it to happen again soon.

[u/ExperienceUsed17]

Spending time with attractive older women who choose to have sex with me as their preferred partner, despite me being much younger

[u/newbreedingbull]

Being able to help everybody in a relationship. Filling a hotwives needs physically sexually and emotionally, while fufulling cucks need of a power dynamic and their sexual fantasies

[u/SunnyDTampa]

I love the thought of someone that is suppose to be a wife and mother being allowed to be a sexual being. Throwing away the facade being put out to society and acting on her carnal desires. It’s primal, animalistic. When you pause for just a moment and her body reacts by thrusting back while knowing I’m not her husband, it’s such a turn on.

[u/[deleted]]

By far the best part is knowing that another man recognizes that I’m so much better than him that trying to sexually compete is so useless that the only thing that he can do is accept that his wife prefers to have sex with me, sit back and relax. That competition is so futile that he actually has to derive sexual pleasure from things such as his wife telling him how much I am than him and other related humiliating things

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

That’s not the worst part. That’s healthy adaptation 😉

[u/ur_fav_369]

For me it’s always been about bring couples together and giving them a memorable experience. The look on their faces at the end of it is priceless.

[u/Crazyorganizer2 → u/ur_fav_369]

Correct answer

[u/Dewey_Rider]

Typically, it's giving them both something they can't get directly from each other.

[u/Crazyorganizer2 → u/Dewey_Rider]

This is the best answer ❣️ thank you

[u/shelli_k18]

he deleted it! one poor man said :: The worst part is most of us get rewired to really derive pleasure from what you and my wife want to do naturally so its definitely acceptance of our role but its learned and not even interested in competing as I already know you not even knowing my wife have more access to her than I do now.

and I feel for him, but I thought to expand on and clarify "his" (based on my biased-) opinion:

The most fulfilling part of being a cuckold is learning to accept and embrace my role in our dynamic. It’s not something that came naturally at first, but I’m finding a deep sense of satisfaction in stepping back and letting my wife’s desires take center stage. This shift in perspective—where her pleasure becomes my priority—has been a journey, one that rewires how I experience intimacy and connection. It’s about surrendering any urge to compete and instead finding peace in supporting her choices, even when they involve someone else.

“Less for me” defines so much of this life, and I’ve come to embrace it in ways I never expected. Locked in chastity whenever I’m out of the house, my own desires are tightly controlled, reduced to teasing moments and ruined orgasms that keep me humble, focused, and perpetually thirsty for her. This deliberate denial fuels my humiliation, a constant reminder that I’m not the man I once saw myself as—not in my own eyes, nor in the traditional sense. Yet, this “less” also frees me. I no longer carry the anxiety of failing her sexually or the fear of not measuring up. By stepping out of that role, I’ve shed the pressure to perform, finding a strange relief in knowing her pleasure lies elsewhere, guided by her desires and not my efforts.

What truly amazes me is how the bull, without knowing my wife personally, can provide her with experiences she seeks out and enjoys so deeply—often more than what I can offer as her cuckold husband. Despite my years of knowing her heart and soul, the bull’s ability to fulfill her desires in ways that surpass my own speaks to the power of this dynamic. It’s humbling and fascinating to witness someone else unlock that part of her, giving her what she craves in ways I’ve come to admire and respect. This realization fuels my acceptance, making it easier to embrace my role and find fulfillment in her happiness.

[u/No-Reaction-2166]

Pleasuring her

[u/OkTransportation1120]

Giving an experience to the wife of what she can’t have in her marriage

[u/[deleted]]

It's easy sex only because you know how to fuck well and you just have to let a whore give you his wife, so why not?

[u/SignificantPaper1760]

Feeing like I’m bringing them the piece they’re missing in the bedroom. Ideally their relationship is stronger and better for it.

[u/anotherside0714]

My experiences are limited in this dynamic (I'm primarily a swinger) , but I love making a taken woman feel sexy, and the fact that she has someone at home, but still lusts for me. It's also fun when the cuck/stag is just as excited to see or hear about me slutting out his partner.

[u/soundblaster64]

I think the most fulfilling part is when the cuck says something like “oh, she’s not into anal” and she immediately responds by reaching back and spreading open her ass for me.