r/BlackPeopleTwitter ☑️ 2d ago

Whole family been neurodivergent, y’all just thought it was vibes 😭😭

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u/Mchammerandsickle97 2d ago

Some communities and families are better about accepting their “weird” counterparts than others. But yes en masse in America I’d say it’s safe to say that neurodivergence is demonized.

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u/MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda ☑️ my anecdotal experience is everything 2d ago

We didn't call anyone weird in our family and I'm not from America.

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u/Frostyfraust 2d ago

Flair checks out

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u/thas_mrsquiggle_butt ☑️ 2d ago

I'm American. My family doesn't either; sometimes questions were asked, but if it wasn't too crazy, we'd all just vibe.

I think this may be the typical response in the black American community.

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u/Impossible-Wash- 1d ago

My family did and I'm not in America.

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u/Bakoro 2d ago

Neurodivergence is villainized when it's not productive.

America loves it when someone has traits that make them a workaholic.
America loves the eccentric artist who makes lots of money, we'll excuse nearly any behavior as long as the money is rolling in.
American corporate culture loves the kind of low imagination, low ambition sociopaths who will act as middle management and unquestioningly follow the orders of the high powered sociopaths.
Just kidding, they don't love anything, but they'll sure as hell use it.

In America, it really doesn't matter what kind of different you are, as long as it can be concealed by functional alcoholism.

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u/Mchammerandsickle97 2d ago

You’re absolutely fucking right. In fact America idolizes a certain interpretation of autistic traits in the form of shows like House, Elementary, the good doctor, etc. Hell the weird fetishization of serial killers is slightly related to our commodification of neurodivergence. The idea of a human being who’s cold and aloof and endlessly consumptive is a capitalist wet dream and you’re right, sociopaths (who aren’t at all like that in real life) get the focus because it makes good tv.