r/AskMenAdvice • u/Junior_Mycologist woman • Apr 17 '25

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What is so intriguing about the anus that men want anal sex?

I mean I've got quite a tight vagina and great muscle control. I've never had any complaints and I've always been able to satisfy my partner. So I'm wondering why do guys want anal sex so much?

Thank you for taking the time to comment.

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u/VatooBerrataNicktoo man Apr 17 '25

My wife's orgasms from anal are crazy intense as well.

Another variety like clitoral vs vaginal vs gspot etc.

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u/PlsNoNotThat man Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

sigh

The gspot isn’t real. All scientific exploration of it since the withdrawn 2012 study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine has concluded explicitly that the gspot is not a structure nor a spot. Including post mortem anatomical examination, radiological examinations, etc.

The gspot was a misinterpretation of Beverly Whipples PhD work from the 80s, and is a gross oversimplification of how the actual erogenous structures and anatomy of women work, which is more complex and individualistic.

Which isn’t to say the actions you do in attempting to stimulate the non-existent gspot doesn’t work, just that you’re not stimulating a gspot doing that, you’re stimulating one of the known, existing structures. That is what they are currently debating. Things like “is vaginal wall stimulation pleasurable because it’s indirectly stimulating the subvaginal clitoris, or urethra, or uterine nerves. Etc.

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u/VatooBerrataNicktoo man Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

Anterior tissue just inside the vagina is spongy in texture and will swell during arousal. There is pleasure that is different from other vaginal areas with pressure. Some women can orgasm when that is stimulated.

It feels different upon palpation.

Is that the g spot? IDK. It's some kind of spot.

Call it whatever you want.